Q: Main bahot pareshan hun. Please yeh pareshani dur karne ke liye koi rasta bataiye. I am 29 year old unmarried man. My problem is that I have negative false thinking. From 6 months I have gay like feelings. My body is reacting like a female. I feel shy to talk with males. I am avoiding males touching me. ek ek din bahot mushkil se kat raha hoon. Mujhe ye female like excitement ki feeling hameshake liye door karne ke liye koi rasta bataiye. meri abhi shadi nahin hui hai.
Q: My husbands brother passed away recently. Can his wife move in with us after her iddat? She has no dad or brothers. Has a mother and a sister that is married. Mother stays alone. Wife has a five year old daughter. My husband wants to assist and support her.
Q: My husband promised me that if I allow him to marry a second wife he will buy me my own house. We are living with his parents for the past 8 years. I accepted it because I knew that nothing is going to stop him from wanting a second wife and I have lived in his parents house for long a home of our own is something we dreamed of a long time. We started looking at houses same time he was looking for a wife. Any way he got married and after some time he told me that a Moulana told him he can't buy a house for me because if he does he has to buy the same kind of house for his second wife even if she doesn't need it she can rent it out. I know all about equality between wives etc but this promise was made to me before he married her. She has her own apartment which her father bought for her after her divorce. I feel cheated I feel very very very cheated. I don't think our Allah is a oppressor and I feel very oppressed right now. I share a room with my 4 kids. It's not fair on me this can't be fair.
Q: My question is my husband used to take care of me so much when I came from Pakistan. Now we live together for 4 years with joint family. I have one baby boy and the second one is on the way but now my husband doesn't take care of me nor does he look after me. He sits with his mom and he fights with me. His mom reads and blows on him. Please tell me a wazifa that my husband will take care of me.
Q: Suppose a boy has committed zina many at times with different girls. But now Allah has made this boy realise that it was very wrong and that boy has confessed for this to Allah and promised not to do it again. That boy is about to get married now. So should that boy disclose this fact to the girl he will be getting married that he has been physical with many girls or not? Because lying is also not allowed in Islam. Please guide me on this.
Q: Please shed some light as wether or not it is permissable to associate with a self confessed Lesbian. She happens to be closely related to me so the reason I ask is that I know from an Islamic perspective, it's not pernmissable to break family ties. Secondly, her parents and siblings condone this lifestyle as they say she and her partner are the sole breadwinners in their home. She and her partner live with her elderly parents. The so called "elders" in our huge family turn a blind eye too, as they say she assists them a lot. I have daughters and its my job as their mother to seperate right from wrong. Am I allowed to engage in conversation with her?, or am I allowed to greet her? I have been avoiding any form of dialogue thus far.
Q: Can you give a wazifa for my husband to love me?
Q: I pray 5 times Alhamdulliah but I see horror/weird faces even while I am awake. Please advise me on this.
Q: I stay in a joint family of one brother in law and my husband. But there is a problem with my brother in law and his wife. She does not want to stay with my parent in-laws but his parents don't want him to go nor he wants to get separated and stay with his wife and they have a son who is disabled. What dose the shariyah decide on it? She is planing to go to the shariyah court and if they don't agree, she will go to the court.
Q: The wife claims that the husband is not guarding his gaze. For this reason, she wants to leave him. The husband is prepared to let her go. The husband does not have any contact with any female nor did he have an affair with anyone. How should the couple resolve the issue?