Q: I have a neighbour who really annoys me, she asks for lifts and favours all the time. I don't mind the one off but with her I feel like she is using me and the thing with me is I can't say no to anyone. What should I do? I am very stressed.
Q: I am 27 years old. I was non practising Muslim, but 7 years ago I started practising. For a few months everything was going fine, but after that doubts started in my mind. To make the story short, I did everything to cure, wazaif,medical treatment, etc.I lost my mind completely, I was crying too much, I lost my job due to depression, then I was hospitalised and doctors said its OCD, anxiety, etc. It's been 7 years I am in doubts in basic Islamic teaching like hereafter, angel, and these doubts are down rooted in my heart, that whole day I provide proofs to myself, but it doesn't help. I lost every thing prayers, tahajjud, zakaat, fasting, Ramadan, because most of the scholars says that ibaadah (prayers) with doubt is useless and doubters will be among infidels. I also have some psychological disorder like depression, OCD, personality disorder, social anxiety disorder. Please tell me what should I do? Please tell me what is this, weak faith or psychology problem? I know there is no way of return for me, but I don't want to die in this state. Till today I am trying my best to clear my mind from these nonsense doubts but nothing helps. Please tell me should I keep going like this, or there is any hope for me?
Q: I have depression. Send me some quraani dua for depression. I am very moody and sad. When I am at home and someone is talking to someone else, I think they are talking about me.
Q: I want to know that I am in a nikaah for the last 7 years but till now I am at my parents home. No rukhsati has been done. My in-laws are dodging us. I want to know is there any wazeefa that I can do so that they will start taking some steps for this as soon as possible. Please help me. I am very much worried.
Q: I am a lone parent and going through financial problems. I have no savings and no job. I have been looking for job for over two years now but no luck. Life is becoming very tough for me now that I can't even sleep some nights. Could you please tell me a dua or wazifa?
Q: There is a mother working in Saudi as a nurse, always beating her elder daughter, her age is 16 years. The mother is saying the daughter is unlucky, using very very bad words to her for the past 10 years. The father and uncles are also helpless. The father sent the daughter to another uncles house for studying, far from his house around 250 kilometres,but unfortunately this family went on vacation and the daughter came to her house. The mother again started beating her, using very bad language with her. The father is helpless. What should the father do? Should he get her married? What should he do? Please advise or send some wazifa for the daughter to save her life.
Q: I am 28 year old. I have been fairly successful in my career and I have never been married. I am very well groomed and have chosen to remain pure out of the fear for Allah Ta'ala. I will prefer to marry a muslim women with similar traits in compliant with Shariah. I am well versed in the Qur'an. Should I find a women around here and just marry her or will it be permissible for me to ask a Mufti to refer good muslim women for me to choose from, as I want to do it according Shariah strictly.
Q: I am married to my first cousin. He is a very tough person to deal with. He drinks, dopes, and does all kind of drugs. He hits me, abuse me and my parents. I tried to get rid of him but my parents are totally against divorce. But now I have a daughter and I think about her future and stay quiet. In addition to all this my phupho (saas) is also a very cruel woman. I can't stand my in-laws at all. They pump my husband against me. I want my husband to leave his parents house and shift in some other city. Please give me a wazifa so that I can make my husband leave this house and city. Please help me.
Q: My friend took khula from her husband (father of her kids) and after a year did nikaah with someone else. After 2 months she left him and went back to her ex-husband and denied her nikaah with the second husband and remarried her first husband without taking divorce from the second husband. She said that the second husband is lying about their nikaah and even filed a case of marriage jactation against the second husband in the court which is still pending. Now after 2 years she is again meeting the second husband secretly while she is still staying with her first husband and now she says that the second husband is her husband and she has sexual relationship with him and goes back home and acts like her first husband's wife and also has sexual relations with him. Please tell me who is her Islamic husband and who is doing zina with her?
Q: I want to marry a boy who is going to convert into Muslim from Hindu religion to get married with me. He is ready to convert by heart into Islam. He believes in kalima tayyibah. Should I marry him? Please guide me.