Visiting Madina Munawwarah

Women visiting the mubaarak grave of Rasulullah (sallallahu alaihi wasallam)

Q: I have a question regarding visiting the Raudhah (the blessed grave of Nabi (sallallahu alaihi wasallam)) as the workers here have created a doubt in my mind.

A staff member was explaining that when we (ladies) visit the Raudhah, our intention should purely be ibaadah in Riyaadhul Jannah and not to visit Rasulullah (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) as he disliked ladies visiting graveyards. Then she quoted an aayah or Hadith in Arabic and stated that Nabi (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) did not make an exception for ladies to visit his grave. So she mentioned that we should all rectify our intentions before going inside.

Is it correct for women to make the intention that they are visiting the grave of Rasulullah (sallallahu alaihi wasallam)?

Woman beautifying herself before visiting the Mubaarak grave of Rasulullah (sallallahu alaihi wasallam)

Q: Recently a woman told us that when you go for hajj and go to Madina Munawwarah to visit the grave of the Holy Prophet (sallallahu alaihi wasallam), a woman should wear new green clothes, perfume, bangles, henna and apply red colored pigment (called gandasa) on her lips. Is it all true or bidah?

Also, is it necessary to make new clothes or wearing white clothes for hajj for a woman?

Standing for long periods at the mubaarak grave of Rasulullah (sallallahu alaihi wasallam)

Q: In Madinah, when standing to give salam to the Nabi ﷺ at his blessed grave, the guards usually tell you to move away after a short while. Therefore you are not able to convey salams on behalf of all people who have asked you to do so. What some people do is that they despite being told off by the guards secretly stay longer until the guards physically push them away. Is it permissible to do so, given that you are certain that you do not cause harm and do not disrupt the flow of people by staying longer? Or is it necessary to immediately obey the command of the guards to move?