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Waalidayn se mashwara karna nikaah ke baare me

Q: Mujhy ik masla baayan karna tha, masla meri shadi ka ha, ik larky k sath meri razamandi, meri khawsih b ha k meri us sy shadi ho, or us ki taraf b yhi mamla ha, us k ghar waly raazi hain, ab masla yh ha koi rasta nazar nai araha k kis tarah apny ghar walo us k bary m batao k wo rishta lana chahta ha, yh koi esa zariya paida ho jis s asani ho, meri rehnumai karein bhot zada pereshan ho, Allah n chah tu ghar waly raazi hojayn gy, lkn koi zariya paida ho jis s wo rishta ly k asky ghar tk, Allah ka shukar ha meri yh soch nai ha k khuda na khausta maa baap k khilaf ja k shadi karo us s, maa baap ki raza mandi s hi shadi karna chahti ho lkn koi rasta smjh nai araha, mujhy in sb kamo ki asani k lye koi wazifa bta dein.

Mazi ko kapre se dhona

Q: Mard ke sharam gaah se jo paani sa nikalta he shuru me jab mard thori khaahish ubharti he jis ko mazi kehte he uske baare me or jo wadhi nikalti he uske baare me batayen ke kis haalat me kya karna chahiye kaise kapre dhona chahiye ya mazi nikalne par ghusal karna chahiye? Aur agar ihtilaam huwa to kitne kapde dhone chahiye sirf neeche ke kapre dhona sahi he ya badan ke saare kapde dhona chahiye chahe wo gande ho ya na ho.

Aurato aur purdah ke kuch sawalaat

Q:

1. Kia aurat eye specialist ky samny chehra khol sakti hai?

2. Kia bazar mn aurat is tarha jasakti hai k surf us ky hath, paer aur chehra khula ho baqi sab dhaka ho aur iss tarha jany mn koi fitna b na ho?

3. Kia aurat jhan rhti hai iss ky pass ky ghroon wale uss ky rishtadar hoon aur wo iss ky ghar aaty hoon to kia jb wo inn bilkul sath wale ghroon mn jae ya apny pas ky khaeton (khaet yani k village mn rhti hai aur wahan tb amoomn ghir mahram b nhi hoty) mn jae to chehra khula rakh kr ja sakti hai? Kia ye jaiz ho gha? Jaiz aur najaiz hony k mutaliq zaror btaye gha.

4. Kia aurat aesi jagha se ghuzry jaha usse ghair mahram na dekh rhy hon ya wahan ghar mahram na hoon to kia wo wahan chehra chupai baghair ghuzr sakti hai?

5. Kia jo ghir mahram rishtadar hoty hain wo ghar aaei to in se chehra chupana hai? Agar na chupana jaiz hai to bta digiay? Kia ghair mahram rishtadar k samny ghar k ilawa chehra khula rakh sakty hain i.e jb unn ky ghar jaaen, tasty mn wo nazar aa jaen?

Studies me peeche hona

Q: Mera sawal yeh hai ek mai engineering course mai hoo jaisa maineh Islamic field mai ziyada tawajju de rahaa hoo toh maineh 2 saal mai dekah hai ki mai mera studies mai picheeh hojarahaa hooo.  Mai Alhamdulilah 5 times ki saath nafil namaz bhi aur daily 1000 martaba durud e Pak. Thoo mai kiyaa karoooh samajnhe nahi araa. Madad ki kijeh please.

Sharamgaah se safed paani nikalna

Q: Hamara umre pe jaane ka iraada ha InshaAllah isi hafte. Ayk masla he ke haidh ke baad safaid paani bohot ziyada aata he owr ye haalat saat se das din rehte he uske baad theek hojata ha.

1. Aap se poochna ye he ke poore umre ke dowraan wudhu ko kaise bar qaraar rakha jaye jab ke paani musalsal jaari ho.

2. Ager aam haalat me jab ke paani waqfe waqfe se ata ho us haalat me bhi umre ke dowraan wudhu ko kaise bar qaraar rakha jaye? Agar is haalet me kabhi wudhu mahsoos ho ke toot gaya he to kiya istinjaa kar ke wudhu karna zaroori he? Aisi haalat me bohot ziyaada waswasay aatay he dil me musalsal yahi khiyaal rehta he ke wudhu toot gaya he.

Khwaab ki ta'beer

Q: Mai ne khwab daika k mai r mere married sister beti k sath r kuch r log b hy hmary sath hm ja rahy hoty hy r wo rasta ganha jangle hota hy r os rast k sides pey barhy barhy room jitny lemon hoty hy wo b mukhtalif shaklo k sath kuch inasani shakal b hoty hy lemon r fr hm thora stay krt hy waha mere sister bet jati hy side pey room jesi jaga hoti hy bahir sy chipkali ati hy os k pao k qareeb jesy wo pohanchny lagti hy wo ult ho k mar jati hy r mai jhoty sy nikal leti ho bahir ja k woi fr zinda ho jati hy r is tarah kye bar yahe repeat hota hy laikin chipkali os k pao tak pohanch k mar jati hy khud ba khud.