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Nikaah se pehle ajnabi mard ke saath ta'alluq rakhna

Q: Mera ek swal he. Me ek ldko ko 7 saal se janti thi wo mjhe ye ykin dilata tha ki wo mjhse nikah krega mene uski ammi ko ghar walo ko mnane k lie jo hua sb kia wo mjhe pasand b krne lge the lekin is ldke ne hi kbi apni ammi se zikr nai kia ek din pta lga uska kisi or ldki se b 5 saal se affair h bawajud iske ye mjhse milta raha bate krta or iske ghar me b sbko us ldki ka pta tha tb b na unhone mjhe btaya blki wo b mjhse ese mzak krte jese shadi mjhse krege sbne mjhe dhoke me rkha jb mjhe sb pta lga to mjhe chod k us ldki se rishta pkka kr dia kisi ko koi afsos tk nai hua na me janti hu wo sb galat tha mjhe ehsas ho gya apni galti ka lekin mjhe ye janna h kya un logo ko unke esa krne ki sza duniya me b milegi kya kisi ko is trah dhoka dene ki koi sza h or wo ldki b mjhe ye ehsas dilati h ki mjhe sza mili jo esa hua or uski dua kubul hui jo use wo ldka mila waha se use flat mil raha h islie b esa hua please mjhe btae kya sch me mjhe sza mili h duae mene b magi thi phir meri kyu qubul nai hui jbki mene kbi galat tarike se shadi ki sochi tk nhi or me use kese bhulao wo dikhta h to bohot rona aata he.

Saas ki taraf se pareshaaniya

Q: Mujhe pochna tha ke meri 2 betiyan hain Alhamdulillah nere bache buhat chote hain abhi or meri saas mere sath rehti hain or wo har bat ma kehti hain ye mera haq ha mere bachon ko jo bat wo batati hain mere bache meri bat nai sunte or mujhe poche bagair wo mere bachon ko bahir lejati hain kbi meri nand ke ghar bhejdeti hain or mere husband b kuch nai kehte ulta mujhe he chup karate rehte hain ma bht pareshan ai hui hun kia dadi ka haq bachon pe zayada ha maa se har waqt mere bacho ke samne khti ha tum log dressing achi karo mama se bolo ke tum ye dress nai pehnugy or agr ma dant don bachon ko tu kehti hain tum se bache nai sambhale jate apne kamre ma mere bachon ko lejati hain or ma kuch nai karsakti itni bebasi kia ye islam ha ke wo itne aram ma beta k ghr ma or beti ke ghr k kareb rehti jo chahe karti ha Allah ne apna ghr driver sab diya ha or ek or beta ha par phr b mere or mere bachon ke peche pari ha tang achuki hun ma unse mere hsband tu bs job pe hote ha ya computer pe bethe rehte hain namaz parhne chalejate hain ya khelne chalejate hain humare upar apni maa ko chor dete hain ye kesi neki kamani hui unki waja se kai bar mere husbnd se b larai hui kia ma apne bachon ko kuch keh nai sakti unko dosro k ghr jane se ruk nai sakti ma kia karo mere bache hain ma unse buhat pyar karti hun Allah meri madad karde plz bataye ma kia karun wo apne dosre bete ke pass kio nai jati jab ke wo akela ha usk b neighbour ma uski behan rehti ha ye kio nai jati usk pas... koi hal ha kia is bat ka?

Khwaab ki ta'beer

Q: Maine khwaab me dekha ke meri saheli ki ammi jinka intekal abi jald hi silendar fatne ki wajah se hua h wo mere khwab me ayi to maine unhe salam kia air unke lipat ke rone lagi aur unse mafi mangi ke mujse koi galti hui ho to maaf kar diega. Lekin wo mera hath pakar k muje apne sath le ja rahi badi mushkil se unse hath chhida ke apne ghr ayi mai to dekha ke wo bhi aa gai aur muje apne sath le jane ke lie preshan he. Mai unse bach ri hun subah 7 bje ka ye khwab he.

Showhar ke huqooq ada karna owr un ke lia dua karna

Q: Maine khwaab mai daikha ke maire dosre jagah shadi ho gae hai but jis se hue hai us ne maire devrani se bhe shadi karle hai or wo us k sath bohat khush hai or Jo us k pehlay sohar se bache hai uska beinteha khayal rakh raha hai or mujhay ignore kar raha hai or maire devrani ne bohat sare gold ke jwekery pehne bhi hai jab ke mai bilkul simple hu. And real life mai mai married hu but bht paraishan hu mairay husband mujhay sath nahi rakhna chahtay.

Napaak karpe ku saaf karna

Q: Kiya aesay kapray jin par napaaki waaly kaprey dhote huwe cheenten pargaye ho un kapron ko bhi aesay hi paak karna ho ga jo sharee tariqa he ya sirf dho le? Me ne aap se pucha tha ke agar napaak kapray ko 3,4 bartan me pare paani se baari baari nikaal liya jaye to kiya paak ho jayen ga. Aap ne farmaya istara shak rahta he paani ko upar se daal diya jaye. Me ne ghar walon se kaha ke paak karne ke tareeky hi se paak ho ga. Unho ne kaha ke teen dafa paani se nikaalne ke bad paak hojate he. Itni dafa jab paani se nikaal liya jaye to konsi napaaki baaqi reh jaati he? Yehi baat me sowchti hu jab itni baar paani se nikaal liya jaye to phir bhi napaaki kesy door nahi hogi khaas kar aesy kapry jin par napaaki waly kapray dhotay huay sirf chheente pare hun. Aap baraaye memerhbaani rehnumai farmaye? Kiya haiz o nifas ke dino me pehne jany wale kapray bhi shar'ee tariqe se paak karnehonge jab ke un par khoon ya napaaki na lagi ho? Kiya hari shalwaar pehen sakte he agar sili gai ho?

Khwaab ki ta'beer

Q: Me khawab me dekhta hun ke meri shaadi ho rahi hai aur shadi ke bad hamari rukhsati ho rahi hai. Rukhsati ke waqt jiss gari me hum beth ty hein us ke pichy gundy lag jaty hein aur mera cousin jo gari chala raha tha wo speed kar ke gari nikalne ki koshish karta hai aur thori der bad wo hamein charon taraf se gher lety hein aur meri ankh ankh khul jati hai. Mene ye khawab subha fajr ke waqt dekha please mujhy is khawab ki tabir bataen.