advice

Q: My brother had nikah in a situation where his mother in-law was suffering from cancer and passed away one week before marriage so he had no walima done. Now after Ramdhaan my mother got seriously ill and had to opt for lumbar spine. She has to be in bed for at least three months. We are three siblings, two sisters and brother. Both sisters also married. Is it allowed for my brother to bring his wife without walima to look after my mother?

Q: Child kidnapping is taking place largely in Pakistan. What amal can I teach my school students, parents, teachers and other staff?

Q: I am the only child of my mother, married with two kids alhamdulillah. But recently things are not going well for me. I'm not in a position to provide for my mother and wife at the same time and this is eating me up. I understand very well both have rights upon me but my earnings are very little! It's like choosing my wife over my mother.

Q: Please advise me. I always think that I am a faasiq and my family and other people around (we are in Nigeria) if I see how other Muslims live in other countries which is not possible here. I have once attempted suicide and I am still thinking of it although I am afraid of it, please help me.

Q: Main apse apne taklif share karna chahta hoon. Mujhe 2014 september 17 taklif hui thi jab main doctor ke pass pohcha ta us ne kaha tumhain h pylori hai main ne takriban 2 saal tak ilaj karwaya fir report negative ai mujh ab ye problem hai k mujh bahar aane jaane main ghabrahat hoti hai kahin bahar jata hoon to aisa lagta hai mai behosh ho jao kahin main mar na jao main bohat isy bat sey tang hogaya hoon mera masala kya hai please batai mufti sahab.

Q: Please advise me. My husband and I are having many marital problems for the past +- 1 & 1/2 years. It's mainly because of my husband's phone. I spoke to him on many occasions but he doesn't want to change. He doesn't show love to me as well. At the moment we are not on talking terms. We only speak what is necessary. The hadith that mentions something to the effect, that the angels curse a woman whose husband is displeased with her and her ibaadah is not accepted, will I fall under this hadith? I am very worried, if my ibaadah is not accepted then how will my duas,tilaawat etc benefit me? Can Mufti Saheb please advise me.

Q: Pray for my success in this world and hereafter. Pray that Allah makes me patient during my hard times that I am facing and make me more mutaqi. Pray that I may enter a good medical college so that I may become a doctor to help and to treat needy patients. Tell me some zikr which makes my mind sharp.

Q: I need a dua to make my husband listen to me and never let anyone come between us. To free our marriage from divorce.