Q: Main yateem hun. Main 4 month ka tha jab parents k death ho gye main aik cousin sey pyar krta hn bht par uske shadi ho gye wh larka usy bht zalel krta agar uske wahan sy tallak ho gye to main usy shadi kr ln. Koi wazifa batayn plz.
Q: I wanted to ask what is the way that I could get my dua answered 100 percent. I have my o level results in a few days and have prayed since my last exam for a result with nothing below an A and a few A stars InshaAllah! I want this dua really to be fulfiled and I think I had put as much effort as I could during preparation. I request you sir to pray for me and that Allah makes what I want better for me. Please tell me a way to make my dying wish come true.
Q: We live with my in-laws. While I was away this weekend my husband let his 25 year old brother use our personal bathroom. There are 6 other bathrooms in the house. My husband knows that I do not like to share a bathroom. Do my in laws need permission to enter into my personal area, or his my husbands permission enough?
Q: Mein aik shadi shuda banda hoon. Meri shaadi ko das saal hoye hein aur woh bhe love marraige hey. Saat saal pehley doosri larki meri life mein aai aur us se taluk itna barh gaya ke mujhe se aik bht bari ghalti hogai. Mein ne usey kaha mein tum se shadi karoonga tab woh bhe raazi thi mein ab tak uskey sath hoon lekin ab woh mujhey biwi se duur rehney ko kehti hey warna mujhse shadi nahi karegi aur mujhey kosna shru kardeti hey. Halankey mein dono ko khush rakhsakta hoon lekin woh dono aik doosrey ko bardasht nhe kar raheen. Dono aik dafa zehar kha kar hospital bhe ja chukeen hein. Mein bht pareshan hoon mujhey plz koi mashwara dein ke mein kya karoon. Biwi ko chorna nhe chahta dono ke sath insaf karna chahta hoon aur sath sath yeh ihsas bhe hey ke uski zindagi meri wajah se barbad hoi hey to uska bhe khayal karoon. Mein ne uska dil rakhney ko hamesha yahi kaha ke haan mein duur hoon apni biwi se. Ab dono meri izat nhe karteen aur dono chor kar janey ko tayar hein. Halankey mein dono ko khush rakhna chahta hoon. Mujhey plz koi hal bhe bataien aur koi dua bhe.
Q: I am 25 (male) from a well-off family and presently pursuing PhD in earth sciences with a decent fellowship but you know the environment here at the university not very pious (there is co-education in the university) and one finds it very difficult to control his emotions. Nikkah seems to be the best solution to prevent oneself in such a dirty environment but the problem is that I am not able to communicate the same to my parents. Now I request you you if you could spent some moments of your precious time to suggest me how to approach my parents for the same. I am ready to marry any girl from any nationality unless she is a pious and practicing Muslim.
Q: Mai aik larki se shaadi karna chahta hn. Hamary ghar waly taqreeban raza mand hain is rishtay par. Masla ye hai k mjy larki sy pta chala hai k wo maa nhi ban sakti. Mery yaha par do sawal hain:
1. Kya ye baat sahi hai k mai ghar walo sy ye baat chupaun aur unhy naa bataun jb k mjy ye baat qabool hai.
2. Kya kisi larki sy rishta is wja sy khatm kr daina k wo maa nhi ban sakti, drust hai. Kya kahi is wja sy mai gunahgar to nhi ho jata. Mera ye masla hall farma dijiya. Allah apko jaza dy.
Q: Me ek larki se chaar saal se mbt karru ab dono ek dusre se bht pyar karre thay ab o ladki mera bath b ny karma samajre. My us ladki ku bht pyar kartau my o ladki se shadi karna chahtu kuch wazifa hai kya o ladki mare mbt samaj k phr se us ladki ku dil me mbt aane k leya.
Q: I am suffering from cancer and my treatment requires lots of money. My husband has left his job in order to take care of me and follow all my treatments. He has taken so much loan from his relatives to run his family needs and my treatment. Now he says me that if something happens to him its my duty that I pay the loan giving away my gold which I got from meher and also gift from my mom during marriage. I feel that is the only backup I have for emergency since I also have a baby. But my husband has plans to use my gold to invest or get property rather than simply keep in locker and give zakaat. But I am not willing. Please replay if my husband has the right to do so.
Q: If one goes for four months jamaat and wants to come home after two months. Does he have to redo the four months later on?
Q: I have a 10 year son who is becoming a hafiz Insha-Allah. He started last year and Alhumdullilah he is now almost completing 5 paras. He is doing hifz part time i.e. he goes to government school and does hifz later. Once he completed 4th para and started 5th para he became more angry, rude and arrogant. He always had a temper but this was extreme. The hifz class that he attends is very strict and well under control. He has an excellent teacher who is a mufti and with this teacher his sabak, sabak dhor and dhor is pukkah. When he doesn't know his work he gets hiding which he doesn't seem to enjoy. Within himself he is angry and frustrated and very scared of his teacher and he wants to change his hifz class actually ever since he started he wanted to change only because he gets hiding. When he knows his work he is happy. When he learns his sabak with me and if he makes mistakes he starts getting anxiety and gets angry and looks for a reason to quit. He says its hard. He cannot memorise. Hifz is not for him etc. he become negative and influenced very easily negatively by his school friends. His mufti was so accommodating that he told my husband that my son has the potential of becoming a hafiz. He will allow my son to do his dhor under another ustaad. My son was happy with this decision. Ever since the mufti is not testing him, his dhor is becoming weak. So we told him to complete school this year and next year he can go to home school. He was happy with that decision. but these last few month seem forever because he is allowing shaytaan to come between him and his hifz once again. I don't how to help him be positive. We all talk positive things to him and encourage him. His younger brother is also doing hifz with him. He read his tahajjudd namaaz and he read his aamaals but when he gets angry he says 'Im doing everything but still I'm making mistake" we give him incentives when he completes a para. Before he started hifz we had an agreement that once you start you can't leave and he agreed in fact he enrolled himself for hifz. My son is not independent. He needs my assistance in everything. If one day I don't test him his dhor he will fix it in his mind that if I don't say my sabak to mum then I won't know my sabak. I give him all the support he needs and shukr my husband and his siblings support him as well. Mufti saab, "Allah Ta'ala knows that I want both my sons to complete hifz Insha-Allah." How do I help him stay positive and focussed and not leave his mufti because from where I stay they is no one better than his mufti. Mufti please help me, help my son to change the way he thinks and be positive. What is the easiest way to help him cope with school and hifz. I heard that there is a way to memorise the Qura'n faster and it has to do with your breathing and posture. If the posture and breathing is correct and person memorise up to 5 - 7 Pages at a time. If mufti know more of this technique please assist me.