Naseehat

Q:

1. Zaroori hai ke hum ya to Sunni hn ya Deobandi ya Ahle hadees? Me apne apko just aik true Muslim samajta hn I don't follow any one to kia kisi firqe ko hona zaroori hai Islam me ya as a Muslim samajna kafi Quran or Hadees pe amal karne wala?

2. On the day of hereafter kia is bare me sawal hoga ke kis firqe ko follow kia hai n kin Ulamao ko n konse Mufti se sharai masail pochte the?

3. Jo shaks jis firqe ka hoga "Sunni, Deobandi or Ahle Hadees" to uske Ulama karam n Mufti sahab jo follow karte honge us base pe uska hisab kitab hoga and agar Ulama galat tariqa follow karte the to kia uski saza us shaks ko bi milegi?

Q: Meri bacchi 6 mahine ki hai. Woh bhut zyada roti hai jab se paida hui hai. Tabiyat kuch na kuch kharab renting hai. Uska naam maine aise hi apni mrzise Ayman rakh diya. Paidaish 19 oct time raat 1:16. Kya karugi barahekaram meri madad kijiye. Bahut pareshan hun.

Q: Mujhe ap se inthai aham aur nazok masla pocha ha.main auk sarkari molazim hon.mahwar tankhow 20000 ha meri shadi ko 10 sal ho choke hain mere 2 bache bi hain Allaha ka shokor ah azwagi zindgi bahot achi gozar rahe ha.

Lakin masla ye ha kh mere parents khas tor pe waldha ki waja se meri azwaji zindgi aur zahini pereshani had se zinda rahe ha. main janta hon kh waldha ka maqam bahot se bi bahot zidha ha.is waja se in 10 salaon main main ne 1 lafz bi nahe kaha balkh momlat ko dorost aur waldha ko khosh karne k chakar main bahot dafa apni wife pe hath uthaya ha. Ab masla ye ha kh mere chote bhai ki shadi ho choki ha to mujh se chota bhai sakht mizaj ka ha,meri walda os k sath thik ha,os ki wife k sath be had se zida thik ha,lakin meri wife k sath her bat pe zid mere sath her bat pe larai.For example meri beti aur meri sister ki umer main taqriban 4 sal ka farqho ga taqriban 6 ki meri beti and my sister is 10 years old.meri pori koshish hoti ha kh jo chiz apni beit k lie lon wahe sister k lie bi but meri tankhwo intin nahe kah main bahot zida khrcha kar sakon pher bi koshsh hot ha..lakin ager kabi meri wife meri beti k lie kuch le le to bus jahgra shoro kh tumhri wife ne to apni marzi ki meri biti k lie kun nahe lai.and mera sara din is kam main gozar jata ha kaha waldha naraz na hon.lakin pher bi wo khsh nahe main kua karon.main ye soch soch k zahni mariz hota ja rah hon kh main hamesha se khd se apni wife se apni sister aur brothers aur waldha ko tarjhe di.pher mere sathe he esa salok kun ager adat ha meri walda ki to mere sathe he kun bhi k sath to thik on ko kuch nahe kahti balkah on ki chota se chota kam bi khod karti hain on ki wife ka on ka.aur mere sath nagaive behavour kun.Main khoda k khof se pher mafi mangta hon wo pher is taraha karti han mere 10 sal is tarha gozar ge ab main ahsaass e mahromi wali kafet se gozar raha hon na gor apni biwi bachon ko attention de pa raha hon na kuch.Mujhe kua karna chahe please mujhe raste btye main bahot taklife main hon.walda ki waja se apne wife apne bachon ka haq na mar jaon aur apni biwi aur bachon ki waja se waldin ka na haq mar joan. jabhkha meri wife auk parhe likhi khaton hain aur bahot coprative hain.main ne bahot sari urton se bahot acha paya ha ose.mere aur mere parnts k sath mokhlis ha wo bi main kua karon.Jabkha mere wald sahb ki pay 42000 ha aur mere parents mashallaha sahitmand hain.

Q: Me apni job k lye apply karna chata hu. mera 1 friend hay usi nay mujhe kaha tha k 1 admi hay jo 100000 Pakistani rupees lay k bharti kar day ga. to mene is k leye istekhara kya tha k mera kaam ho ga ya ni agar hua b to kher aur barkat wala b hoga ya ni. is k lye mene istekhara kya 2 baar kya har baar 7 martaba continuously kya leken mujhe kuch samajh ni i. mene har tarah k khwab dekhay jis me kuch achay to kbi buray. aur har tarah k colour like white black red green b dekhay. Mere dil me abi b kashmakish hay k mere leye ye job sahi hogi ya ni. meri samaj me kuch b ni aa rha k me kis taraf jaon. Aap hazraat meri is baray me achhi rehnumai krain. me aap k shukar guzaar rahu ga.

Q: Mein bhut preshn hu bhut bari ghlti hogai mjhse shadi se pehly hamal ther gya or maine 7 din ka hamal badnami se bachnay k lie gira dia or rat ko bhut bury sapny dakhti hu khabi muhn se khon ki dhar ana khbi bemari dakhna hiv virus ki bemari dakhna sath me meri family bhi is bemari me mubtala hy or apni sagi khala ki beti ko me nuqsan punchti hu. Phir mout apni dakhti hu bhut preshn hu me or pls mera saawal ke jawab tafseel se bayan karen Allah apka hami o nasir ho.

Q: I want to ask you ki Islamic sariyat ke mutabik kya ek larke ko kisi ldki ke sath ishq krni chahiye or kya nikah ke bina ek sure ko relationship me nhi rahna chahiye or aise galti ho jaye to phir kya krni chahiye or kya Allah use maaf nhi karega plz bataye apke jawab ka intazar rahega.

Q: Mery parents aj umrah pr gye hain subha main main ny unsy galy mil lya jub main janabat ki halat main thi yani main paak nhi thi main us wuqt mna kr nhi ski ab mjhy bht bura feel horaha hai braye mehrbani meri rehnumai kijye k main kya kroon bht maafi bhi mang rhi hun Allah se.

Q: Takabbur se bachne ki koi dua aur tadbeer batayen.

Q:

1. Me bht gunahgar banda hn plz muje bataen k gunahon se tauba n gunahon ki baqsish kelye behtreen dua n istaghfar kia hai ?

2. Gunahon se tauba karne kelye aik aik gunah ka name lekar Allah se tauba karne paregi "Allah me music sunne ke gunah se tauba karta hn " ya just simple "Ya Allah meri tauba me tauba karta hn tamam gunaho se kena enough hai Allah se gunahon ki baksish mangne kelye n tauba kelye?

Q: There is one problem with me. Wherever I am going, people are talking loudly with one another. Koi muzhe dekhkar meri taraf peeth kar deta hai. Koi akad kar khade ho jata hai. Muze aisa lagta hai ki mai logo se dabaya ja raha hu. Is hi ke vajah se mera namaaz me dil nai lagta. Do mahino se college nahi gaya hu. I have lost my self confidence, contentment and boldness. Whenever I am seing that there are people I am going to run away from there. I am unable to talk with people even with my parents. It is very dark problem. I am totolly unable to fulfill the right of Allah as well as people. Please help me. I will be very thankul of you. I am performing nafl salah daily but I dont understand what to ask to Allah. I am praying and asking to open my chest.