Shaadi

Rooh ki shaadi

Q: Eik bar mujhe jado karne walon ne kaha ke aap jis se shadi karna chahte hain hum us se aap ka roohani nikaah karwa dete hain. Aap qabool ha kehdiye ga aur us larke ki rooh qabol ha qabool ha kehdege. Mene qabool ha qabool ha kaha phir wo larka majood nahi na to usko pata ke usko mene qabool kiya ha to kia nikah hogaya mera ke nahi?

Shaadi ki rasmi ki wajah se shaadi me na jaana

Q: Hamare rishtidaaro ke yaha shadi h. Hamare yahaan 3 rasmain hote hain.

1. Mayo

2. Mehendi ki raat

3. Nikaah

Main shaadi me jana to nahi chahti, because of the sound system. Lekin ek masla jo mujhe pochna ta woh yeh hai ke mehendi ki raat me gaana, waghaira kaafi kuch hota lekin sirf auraton ki function me hi hota hai. I know mere ghar mujhe is baat ki permission nahi dengay ke me shadi me na jao. Iss soorat me kya karo?

Shohar mahar dene se inkaar karna

Q: Court marriage ke baad agar rukhsati se phele he divorce ho jaye to kiya haqq mahr khatam ho jata? Husband wife me khalwat be hui ho.

Kiya is soorat me iddat banty? Agar husband haqq mahr dene se inkar kar de jab ke haqq mahr muqarrar hua tha phir bi na de yeh keh de ke wife ne khud relation khatam kia to is soorat me Allah ka kiya hukam he?

Chupke me nikaah karna

Q: Nikah mai agar mard ki taraf se gawah na ho tu kiya aurat ki taraf se gawah paish ho saktai hain kiyun ke mard chahta hai ke dusri wife se shaadi karai lekin uski pehli wife ko pata na chalai na he us ke ghar walo ko?