Talaaq

Q: If somebody's husband is impotent then is it permissible to ask for khula? Is impotency a valid reason to ask for khula?

Q: What is the ruling regarding divorced parents and the custody of children? Two prominent muftis have said that although the children are 7 and 9 years old, yet they do not go to the father as the father is not capable of caring for children. It will not be forced upon the mother to let go of the children and also the fact that this is not a muslim country so the mother will not be forced to. However, when the children reach puberty, then they are given the choice to choose where they want to go. Is this true?

Q: I had 3 children from a previous marriage. I thereafter got married as a 2nd wife. My children went to their father for the holidays and now when it is time for them to come back, their father refuses to send them. He says they will live with him now and that shariah is on his side because I got married to another man. I am so distraught I don't know what to do. I love my children and I don't want to lose them. Please tell me what my rights are. Jazakallah