Talaaq

Conditional divorce

Q: If a husband takes a qasam that he has no relation with that lady which is ought to be his wife and he often says that they are not mine. He also says that if they say they are my wives then I give them talaq talaq talaq three time. He even holds the Quran in his hand and says that they are not in my relationship. Does it mean talaq and is it talaq for all his wives?

Ambiguous words of talaaq

Q:

1. If a wife asked for talaaq and the husband replied “theek hai tumhare abba se baat karunga” will it be a talaaq?

2. One day I had a fight with my wife but things cooled down. While speaking to my wife, instead of saying "mujhe tumse baat nahi karni" words came out of from my mouth as “tumhara mera koi rishta nahi jisme hum ek dusre se batein share karein” but then suddenly a thought came into my mind that this could be kinaya words, will it be a talaaq-e-baain?

Will the word "choro mujhe" constitute divorce?

Q: A wife says to her husband that she wants to work because she is educated and suffers from depression thus wants to work and help her husband out financially. Also because the husband doesn't give her any money, instead he gives money to his parents.

The husband said "agar job karni hai or job karni hai to choro mujhe or job karni hai to chordena mujhe".

Meaning if you work or want to work then leave me.

The wife asked whether he had intention of divorce and he said "no", he just meant that she should stay with her father and then come back. If the wife worked would this be a divorce?

Husband telling his wife "I want to divorce you"

Q: On 21st November 2018 we had a baby and on 29th November 2018 my husband said to me "I want to divorce you" three times. He had brought two witnesses with him. I was still impure from my delivery that time. Since then I am staying with my family and have been trying to reconcile with him. Now my husband is willing to reconcile but we dont know if it is possible. My husband says that even though he said "I want to divorce you" he had the intention of divorce. Can you please tell us if the divorce happened and how can we reconcile? 

Husband retracting from his confession of divorce

Q: During a quarrel with one's wife, the husband said to his wife "We have no relationship" without the intention of divorce.

When the wife asked the husband what was his intention, the husband got angry and said that he had the intention of divorce but after some time later he said that he had no intention of divorce. He really said it without the intention of divorce.

My question is, the husband had no intention of divorce but he just said that he had the intention of divorce (he spoke a lie) so will divorce take place? 

Divorcing one's wife while living in another country

Q:

1. I need to issue a divorce to my wife but she is in my home country and I am abroad, can it be done via video call?

2. If I say it 3 times is it a valid and will the divorce be final ?

3. She has 2 kids from a previous marriage (their father is no longer in their life), after divorce, do I have any rights to the children who are not biologically mine? If so what are my rights?

4. Please advise me on the correct way to issue the divorce to my wife who is living in a different country since I do not have the means to go home to do it.

Suspending talaaq

Q: I told my wife that if she talked with her family members on her mobile except her mother and father then she will be divorced. If in case she talked to anyone then what will be the situation? Will she be divorced? I said only once talaaq in case she talked with them on the mobile.