Talaaq

Q: I gave my wife 3 talaaqs 9 years ago. We have two daughters who were 2 and 4 years at the time. First talaaq was given while my in laws were living with us. We got into a very bad argument (screaming and shouting) and I wanted to leave the house but my father in law insisted that I give her talaaq. Unfortunately I did not know much about rules of talaaq back then.We were apart for 6-7 months but reconciled and made nikkah again. At this time my then wife was looking after and supporting her parents as they were out of work, which put a lot of strain on our relationship. We had another disagreement a few months later and I consequently issued her with another talaaq and while issuing her with the second one she insisted that I give her a third talaaq. My wife was a very stubborn woman and while I am not short tempered if I do get angry I "snap". At this stage I became so enraged that I issued her with the third and final talaaq. The third talaaq was issued out of pure rage and this is something that I regret to this day. As stated before it is now 9 years later and neither myself or she has been with anyone else. For the past 9 years it seems as if we have have grown closer to one another (without her parents involvement as they have moved to Cape Town). I would like to know if there is any chance that we can reconcile and get married again? A few days ago she confessed that she still loves me and I in turn also confessed that I still love her. At the time I did not know the implications or conditions of talaaq and have asked Allah for forgiveness as I realize what I did was wrong.

Q: In the case of divorce if the wife does not remarry any one and stays single, who does the children go to? Under the custody of the mother or the father?

Q: If the wife asked for divorce and the husband said if you bring the papers then I will give you a divorce but she doesn't get the papers does talaaq fall?

Q: I would like to know, if the wife tells you in front of the children, I am divorcing you, what are the consequences?

Q: After both parents death, who becomes the legal guardians of the kids in Islam especially considering issues of mahram in a daughters case.

Q: I want information regarding divorce (talaaq). If a man issued three talaaqs to his wife, is it considered as one talaaq or three talaaqs?

Q: What should a husband do/fulfil in all perspectives of life for kids/wife after separation or divorce?

Q: My husband complained to my mother that"your daughter is not giving me time" out of misunderstanding. He said I cant tolerate this situation and I am fed up with this situation. My mother told him to have patience then he replied that "I am sorry I can not tolerate this." He didnt use any word of divorce at all. It was just he was complaining. He swore to Allah his only intention was to talk to me. But I am confused that can these words constitute divorce?

Q: Can a person give the power of talaaq to his parents or someone else who he trusts so that even if he says the words out of frustration anger etc it wouldn't go through?

Q: My husband was upset at me because my father parked in parking spot outside. He kept saying you should tell me when he parks and I kept saying I didn't know he parked. Eventually I said that let me go to my father right now and tell him please don't park in his parking, hearing that my husband got upset and said that if you tell him then I will give you talaaq. Hearing that, I didn't go in the room. Later on my father came to me and asked why my husbands upset, on that I said that you parked on his parking spot. Does this issue a talaaq?