Talaaq

Q: What are the rights of a woman in Islam in terms of seeking a divorce?

Q: I'd like to know something regarding talaaq. I am an ex-recovering addict. I used drugs and I got married in 2012 and 6 months later in a rage of anger and not in the right frame of mind I sent an email to my wife giving her 3 talaqs. It's now 2014. I have rehabilitated myself and have been thinking a lot about what I've done and wondering whether my talaaq are valid or not?

Q: Please help me. Once one of my friend's said "Do you have a wife? and I said "I don't have a wife, we have gone our separate ways" (meaning I left her but I never had any intention of divorcing my wife. The only reason why I said this is because I didn't want them to know my business but I quickly changed my statement and said "Yes I have a wife" but all I wanted was them not to know my business. Is this divorce?

Q: I told my wife to leave my house and go to her fathers house. Do you take that as a talak. It's been a week and my father inlaw does not want my wife to come home and she wants to come home. What do I do?

Q: Is it allowed in Islam for ex-husband and his mates still control his ex-wife's life and prevent her to marry for example another man from his country? If not, what to do in this kind of situations?

Q: If a husband said to his wife that if you go outside then you are free from my side or the marriage. What does it mean? I the wife goes outside then is she automatically free from husband or the marriage?

Q: I am a 20 year old girl. I got married last year December. Recently my husband and I have been having some problems. He has told me to leave twice but from those two times I only left once which was last week Wednesday. I am currently at my father's house. My question is if my husband told me to leave, does that count as a talaaq?

Q: I was at my parents home for a meal function and there where guests there. My husband started swearing at me and said I must come home with him immediately. I said I will come after the function is over, as it is rude to just leave abruptly for no reason. On 3 occasions he told me 'come now or don't come/if you don't come now then stay here for good'. What does this mean? He does lie often, so if I ask him if it meant talaq he can lie and say no even if he did mean it at that time.

Q: If one says "Me talaaq deta" but hasn't said "houn" (so the sentence "Me talaaq deta houn" hasn't been said), does that count as a divorce?

Q: I have many times said I am freeing you. Tum azaad ho jo karna hai karo but never had any intention of divorcing my wife. I just said these words in anger. Will these count as talaaq?