Talaaq

Q: My wife wants a percentage of my house in case of divorce. Do I have to do it, if not how can I tell her nicely no?

Q: If one says I divorce my wife when I get married to her. Will they get divorced? If this is said in ones mind or where no human heard it, will it take effect?

Q: My wife habitually tells me you must be doing something wrong, when I follow instructions and they do not work.  Today I lost my temper and said to her as follows:

1. Don't insult me ok
2. You talk to me like I am thick
3. It gets bloody annoying
4. You do it all the time, talk to me like I am idiot
5. I can read, I am not thick.  You talk to me like I am thick
6. I know how to follow bloody instructions.
7. I am fed up of you

The intention of divorce was in my mind at the time as I was so angry. Would this constitute divorce? At this moment in time, whilst typing this, I am still so angry that I am thinking I don't care if it constitutes divorce. I want it to constitute divorce. I may have made other statements alluding to divorce but can't recall what they are. They would have been similar to the aforementioned statements. Should I find out from my wife what I said?

Q: Zaid told his friends that he has divorced his wife you can go and marry her. Has The divorce taken place or not?

Q: If a man has an intention of divorcing his wife but does not say anything aloud (he said talaaq in his mind), is the nikkah still valid?

Q: Does a remarried divorcee have a right over her children from the previous marriage a lady got her marriage dissolved and her boys were left with her former husband (who is their father) and later she remarried. Now she wants her boys back, and says the shariah supports her on this – but the husbands claims that she waived her custodial rights by remarrying -- and that the boys will suffer under their step father.

Q: I have a Brother-in law who is Bi-polar (Mental sickness), He had a re-lapse, whereby he became sick again about a week ago. He is married & has one child. However when he had the re-lapse he pronounced 3 talaaqs to his wife, thereafter he was hospitalised for a week & is now back at home. Is his pronunciation of the 3 talaaqs valid?

Q: My daughter  has been married  for 6 years and separated from her husband 10 months ago. She has been asking for talaq but her husband and his family have been playing delaying tactics. Finally they have agreed  to give her talaq and have asked her to do the following:

1. Request talaaq by email message 
2. Return the mehar given to her at the time of nikkah and return gold jewellery given to her at nikah. Will this be classed as khula talaq?

Will it be baain/ complete  talaq?  

She also has gold jewlery given to her by her grand parents at the time of nikah is she entitled to claim this?

Q: A husband and wife have been having numerous arguments. During the course of these arguments, the husband has, on many occasions, told the wife “ if you want to leave, pack your things and go”. Does this nullify the nikah?

Q: I relapsed into drugs after years this past weekend, my wife which is 3 months pregnent with our second child and I had an argument about it, I was very angry at the time I said talaq 3 times at once over bbm while not in the right frame of mind. Is it still valid? We are both in deep regret I do not know where to turn. I did make a mistake taking the substance over the weekend and have already booked for a rehab. Due to the facts sent by msg, thrice at once, wife being pregnent, being under the influence these factors could perhaps make it null and void. 

I have had a response to the above stating it is valid.

I have forgotten to mention that my wife and I were separated previously and that I gave a single talaq straight after we had separated. We had only decided to reconcile after 10 months. I am unsure on this, did this mean we had to make nikah again if we got together after 10 months? Does this mean the few months we spent together was haraam and is the triple talaaq I gave void since we we're actualy not married again?