Marital problems

Q: I am a divorced woman with 1 baby boy. My last marriage ended because my ex husband was draining me financially. He sent me a divorce as soon as our child was born. Life became very difficult and I was mentally upset for my child. I married again very quickly to the elder brother of a man my younger sister was engaged to. These people were also lower in status financially but we agreed to it because they were willing to take my son too. That man has turned out to be schizophrenic. He sleepwalks, tries to suffocate himself or me, assumes things and acts so scary that I feel concerned for our safety. He beats me, abuses me, tries to scare my son badly. I often find my son scratched in various places and scared. I am expecting another child now. He is using me entirely for money, treats me like a servant even though I am heavily pregnant and cant walk. I pay the bills, grocery. I even leave my kid with my sister sometimes because I feel too scared for what he witnesses. People of our society will kill me for another divorce and he is always threatning me with it. His entire family is like this and they want to beat me to the ground. They wont let me end my sisters engagement unless I want a divorce again. I am so badly stuck and I am always so afraid in his company. My son has also told me in broken language that he touches his private parts. Please help me! I am extremely worried and scared.

Insurance company ki cheeze istimaal karna

Q:

1. Insurance company mn kam krna kesa? Agr kisi k papa insurance company mn kam krty hain aur unko wahan pr company ki tarf se diaries mily hain aur phir unho ny apni aulad ko di to aulad ny gift k toor pr apny friends ko di to kia wo friends wo gift rakh len?

2. Agr aulad ny wo diaries pr notes bnaiy aur kisi dost ny us se wo notes mangey to kia dost un diaries pr bnay notes ko hasil krny k liay wo diaries friend se let kr istimal kr sakta ya nhi?

3. Kai log bht sakht jumly bolty hain kai dafa to aesa laghta k inhoon ny kufria jumma bakka hai aesy mn in se baat waghaira krna kesa? Un se salaam lena kesa? Un k liay dua krna kesa?

4. Kia aesy logo k muta'alliq ye husn e zan rakh sakty hain k inhoo ny ihtiyati toor pr tajdeed e Iman kr lia ho gha?

5. Cheenk ka jawab dena ka ussi waqt hai ya baad mn daay sakty hain?

6. Kabhi ye pta nhi chalta class mn k cheenk kis ki thi to kia kia jaai?

7. Kabhi cheenk his aai WO door hota aur class b ho rhi hoti hai aesy mn kia kia jaai?

Building a sound room in the Musjid and decorating the Musjid

Q:

1. A Musjid is being constructed at the moment. The building is not yet complete and the Musjid boundaries have not yet been specified. Will it be possible to have the room beneath the staircase as non-Musjid area while the staircase leading to the first floor is Musjid? The benefit is that Azaan can be given from this room and the sound system will إن شاء الله be safe in that room. Please advise.

2. Can the qiblah wall in the Musjid be decorated? If it is not permissible, what will be regarded as decoration? Will Qur'an aayaat, ahaadeeth or duas be a form of decor? Will marble or tiles be considered a form of decor?

3. Can public funds be used for aesthetics of the Musjid? Will a dome be considered as aesthetics?

Getting married to please one's uncle

Q: My husbands uncle asked him to marry his cousin. She lives in Kenya and we live in the US. I am okay with it but my husband is telling me that he feels like he is deceiving her because he doesnt think he can take the responsibility but he doesnt want to get his uncle mad and he regrets accepting it. What I want to know is, is it wrong for me to make dua saying "Allah, if he cant take the responsibility, may Allah not make the marriage happen" because I dont want the girl in sadness because she is my sister? I dont want her to miss the chance of having someone that will love her and not be forced because the father wanted?

Knowledge of the unseen

Q: I am asking this question on behalf of a friend. He wants to know if there is any dua that can be read to find out if his wife is having an affair with her sisters husband. How can one see if they are still having sexual intercourse whenever she goes for holiday to her sisters house?