Anger in children

Q: My daughter's name is urooba meaning a woman who loves her husband the most. Masha Allah now she is 4 year and 8 months old, but she's always very angry. I am very concerned about her for her future for her martial life, how will she survive and control her anger in practical life. Please suggest any suitable Islamic name for her.

Working with women

Q: I am young single male in my early 20s. I find myself working in an organization department comprised only of female staff. The other departments have male staff, but not mines. I am the only male in my work environment. I have to communicate to the young staff and and elderly staff for administration purposes and work purposes. The staff comprises of young and elderly Muslim women. I experience great difficultly in respect of understanding my role and duty as a Muslim. How do I relate to the young girls and women. Sometime they feel I am being funny when I try not to talk or make salaam to them and they make my task difficult for me. Should I continue in this job or look for another one? How should I conduct myself with the Muslim women?

Discharge coming out due to one's thoughts

Q: I got some dirty sexual thoughts but changed my mind as fast as I could and I kept reminding my self not to think of the thoughts later like 15-20 min or so I went to the washroom and when I was washing I noticed discharge it wasn't a lot but it was a bit more then usual so am I napaak? Also what's the ruling in this type of discharge from those thoughts when is ghusl needed?

Equality between wives

Q: My husband wants to take a second wife. We have been living in my house for twenty years. He bought a house now to live with his second wife. According to Shari'ah, is he supposed to provide me also with a house? Also what are the conditions?

The laws of inheritance

Q: My father in-law just passed away recently. We were informed that there is no will for the faraidh of his estate but he has left a verbal message to a male and female witness. Please advise if that is valid and we should abide by it? We are pretty unsure and would like to do it right for the deceased. One more question, if faraidh are not done correctly, what are the consequences?

Talaaq related questions

Q: Before I ask my question let me explain what happened. Shortly after we got married my husband and I had a fight and he said I am giving you a talaaq. This being the first time he has said we took it it as one talaaq, and we reconciled and carried on. After that we had numerous fights and it got to a point where he said he doesn't want to be with me anymore, he is leaving. Very harsh words towards me. But he did not say that he is giving me another talaaq or divorcing me. A few months passed after that and it has now gotten to a point about two weeks ago, that he said I am giving you a talaaq, and he packed up and left. I have been sitting in iddat since then. My questions are as follows;

1. Does him saying during our fights that he is leaving constitute a second talaaq?

2. Is this talaaq he has given now the 2nd or 3rd talaaq?

3. If it is the 2nd talaaq can we reconcile and does a new nikaah have to made?

4. If it is the 3rd talaaq does he still have a responsibility to me during my iddat period or not, as he has moved out am I obliged to spend my iddat in my current home where I am still staying?

5. Is it permissible for me to go to work during my iddat as he is no longer supporting me, and I have no father or brothers or even uncles to take me in?