Urine drops problem

Q: I am a mazoor suffering from urine incontinence. I have 3 questions:

1. After making istinjaa and before making wudhu I always drip some urine in between, can I still make wudhu?

2. If a mazoor intentionally urinates one or two drop of urine, is his wudhu still valid?

3. Is reciting Qur'an forgiven for a mazoor?

Waswasas and doubts

Q: I feel stressed and depressed due doubts and waswasas. Please me help me in this situation. How can I get rid out of this? Its affects my physical and mental health. Please give me any duaa to recite.

Haraam relationship with a non-Muslim

Q: I have a non Muslim female friend. I want her to come to Islam and become a Muslim. For this I always make dua for her and show my best character (akhlaaq) to her. But when I talk about religion she tells me she doesn't believe in any religion but she believes in Almighty God that He is One. She is engaged in bad habits such as: cigarettes, wine, boy friend relationships, etc. When I told her to leave these things she got irritated and told me don't interfere in my life. I have my own life. What I want I will do. I don't care whether it is good or bad. Please tell me in this situation what should I do?