Q: I am in love with a Muslim girl. Both of our families know about us and we always force them to get us married, but they are delaying without reason. I earn more than enough to run a family. Both our families said that they will arrange our marriage in the year 2020.
We want to make it halal by marrying according to Islamic rules. Will our nikaah be valid if we get married without informing our family?
Q: I wanted to know if it would be a gunnah if I had breast implants.
My reasons for wanting to do it is because of black magic. Due to black magic I have lost my appearance totally to the extent where it's really embarrassing for me. Now I want to know if it's allowed to get implants only for my husband as I know he doesn't like my appearance. I don't want to cheat on him or anything. I just want to correct what the black magic has done to me.
Can you please tell me if it will be a gunnah.
Q: When a husband and I argue, he says to me "you have lost all haq from me" does this count as divorce? In no way does he mean that he is divorcing me.
Constantly when I argue with him and ask him for a divorce, to shut me up a few times he said "I will" as in I will give it.
I just wanted to know if divorce takes place.
Q: My child urinted outside when toilet training. How do I make the floor paak (taking into consideration it is a flatish, sandy land and not near a drain)? I poured water and left it to dry, do I need to repeat twice?
Q: I was in love with a guy about 8 years ago. We were in a relationship for 4 years and then when we broke up, me and my family left UAE and came to Japan. The reason I broke up with him was that my cousin told my mom that your daughter is in love with someone so my mom said a lot of bad words to me.
After that everything changed in my life. I left that guy because I didn’t want to hurt my mom. I promise that I never met my that guy. I only chatted with him. But now my mom and dad hate me alot. It has been 4 years since we came to Japan and my dad never talks to me nicely. My mom says that I am napak. I swear I have never done anything wrong with him. I know my limits. I told my mom that we can go to a hospital and do a checkup and I can prove that I'm a pure virgin. I'm soo tired I just wanna kill my self. I attempted suicide many times but I always failed. I know its haram in Islam but it hurts me when my mom and dad does this to me.
After we broke up he got married and he is living a happy life with his wife and he has a baby boy. I'm suffering alot. Is there any wazeefa that I can get married or any wazeefa by which my family will understand me?
Q: I'm 25 years old living with my parents. After completing my studies I got a rishta from Canada. I talked to that guy for 8 months but it was merely a simple "get to know" talk. They visited us and everything went great. Later, his dad asked for my rishta officially and the wedding date was set. After two months we had to call it off because according to the guy, he was forced into it. I had to bear the consequences.
After a year, another rishta came from a guy in South africa. We connected immediately, he came and we got engaged. He went back and after two months we got to know his PR expired and to extend it, he did a paper marriage.
Also, according to the new rules I wont be able to go there or work. Once again we had to call it off. This time I cant take this burden, I want to die - I hate my life soo much. I dont have any strength in me. Please help.
Q: I want to know that if I work hard with the intention that I will become successful, is it shirk or not?
Q: I am now 41 years old and for the pass 3 or 4 years I have been getting haidh for more than 10days. It first starts off with a brown discharge and after a a day or two I start to bleed for 7 days and thereafter I have the brown discharge again for the next few days. This whole discharge and bleeding goes on for more than 10 to 12 days. Do I start counting my days from the day of discharge or the day I start bleeding and must I go back to following what my past habit was 7 to 8 days a few years ago or do I have a ghusul after 10 days?
Q: My wife delivered a child 2.5 months ago. Her period has not started yet. We had sex last night but we cant take any precautions like using condom, etc. If sperm enters her vagina by mistake, is there any chance of her falling pregnant again?
Q: If a person earned money through selling alcohol, can he use the money e.g. for funeral costs?