Talaaq

Q: My husband divorced me once over the phone but made ruju. Later on we had many fights. I asked him for divorce or to end the marriage and he said "ho gayi" meaning it's done, along with many other words that I don't remember. This was in person.

Then at another time after more fights, I asked him to end this and he said, "Samjho ho gayi or ho chuki" meaning consider it done. I wanted him to text me the word talaq but he said I'll send the papers in mail. I gave him the address because he asked. But he couldn't go through with it. Later on, he said since he didn't use the word divorce, it probably didn't occur. 

Q: A man has two wives. His second wife is pressurizing him to divorce his first wife. However, he does not want to divorce her. Is there any way for him to give false or unreal talaaq or something like that just to satisfy the second wife. What should he do to come out of this situation? Please guide.

Q: I have applied for faskh (annulment of nikaah) and I want to ask two things regarding this:

1. When the faskh is complete, do I need to return my mahr?

2. Does there need to be a division of assets?

Q: If divorce happend before rukhsati and no physical relations was done, what is the solution if I want to marry the same girl?

Q: Is divorce during pregnancy halaal? If a husband thinks he cannot move on with his relationship with his wife, can he divorce his wife during pregnancy? Whether yes or no, in either case, please explain when will the iddat terminate.

Q: I read that according to some Ulama, the forms of the civil divorce do not count when a person does not intend Shari divorce.

https://www.ontario.ca/page/file-divorce-application-online#section-3

Sorry, I just wanted to ask your procedure just to stay safe. What exactly should I do when signing the forms so the Shari divorce doesn't take place.

Q: If during nikah, a husband says that he is ready to give one divorce right to his wife verbally then is it effective? After giving this right, how many rights of giving divorce does the wife have? 

Q: Does a first talaaq have to be revoked by sex or can a husband say I take you back into my nikkah?

Q: If a husband set a condition for talaq (like if his wife does this then talaq will occur) and after some time the husband wants to remove this condition, can he do it?

Q: I am 29 years old. Me and wife have been married for 3 years. She does not like having sex with me or having any kind of intimate relationship. This leads to a lot of frustration for me. We do not fight about this because I try to be as understanding as possible but sometimes I feel really pathetic when I think about this issue between us. We have finally decided to go ahead with a divorce and will be speaking to our parents soon. I just need to know if lack of sex is a valid reason for divorce in Islam?