Talaaq

Husband saying "I will divorce you"

Q: Me and my husband had an argument and he said to me that you will get divorce from me, I will divorce you. I said that you just divorced me and he said that next time I will say it three times in one breath. Last week he said to me that I will divorce you. Is this divorce valid or not because after that he calmed down and he said that I haven't divorced you. What should I do?

Husband signing divorce letter

Q: In a heated argument with my husband, I wrote out a letter of divorce stating that he (his name) hereby issues me (my name) with a divorce and forced him to sign under his name. He signed in anger of what I was asking. I know that this is wrong. I would like to know if it constitutes to a divorce as I do not want to live in sin.

Divorce via sms

Q: My husband send me divorce on sms. He give me divorce not in front of me. He just write I divorce you three times and send to my cell phone number by sms. Is divorce valid?

Applying for faskh

Q: I have been married for almost 10 years. I have 2 wonderful boys. My husband was a recovering addict when we got married, with my 1st pregnancy he relapsed and since then it's been rehab in and out. He has been in and out of work also. Recently he was detained, I have however helped him through all this because I love him. I'm so tired of this uneasy marriage as happiness only last for so long. His addiction is affecting the kids especially my eldest of 9yrs old... Is it wrong of me to want to walk away from this marriage? He keeps on promising that it's the last but then he ends up disappearing for days and I'm not even sure if he has someone else in his life. He disappeared again on Saturday evening and this time around took my wedding bans probably to sell it.

Can I asked for Faskh? I have tried to hold on to this marriage but I cannot endure all this hardship, sleepless nights and stress. I'm emotionally drained.