Talaaq

Dispute regarding talaaq

Q: I never said the word talaaq or meant it, but my wife says she heard me say talaaq three times or more. I did say Tal'h like the name twice when we were in a car (but never meant it). I never intended to talaq my wife or anything similar. Please help

Saying "I will divorce you"

Q: I had given two talaaqs to my wife on different occasions and did not separate. After that one day in an argument between us she demanded that I  divorce her. I told her that I will divorce you "Main tumy talaq be day don ga". My intention was only to make her afraid not a divorce. After that we live together and noting happened. After three months of this event my wife is claiming that I had divorced her on that occasion. While I am sure I did not divorce her I just said I will divorce you. There was no intention of divorce.

Husband telling the wife "I got no wasta"

Q: My husband touched the Quran in anger an said I got no wasta. He said he didn't mean it as divorce. Can you please tell me does that mean we are divorced? I've already paid kafara of feeding 20 poor people because he touched the Quran. An we been living like man an wife since. Please help me as I'm not comfortable. I pray five times and I don't want to live in sin for the rest of my life.