Janaazah

Q: I want to know can spouses touch, see each other or perform Ghusal after death of any one of them, as I have heard that as soon as one of them die Nikkah gets canceled and no one can touch or see dead body of other partner?

Q: What can I do after my father's death? Can I recite the Qur'an and Salaatul Maghfirah for him or not?

Q: I was told the extra words in the Sana of Janaza salah وجل ثناءوك (wajalla sanauka) should not be recited in Janazah salaah because it is not proven from Hadith or the practice of the Sahaba and is a bidat. Is this correct?

Q: Is it correct to write R.I.P (may he rest in peace) for a non-Muslim after his demise? What does Islam say about this?

Q:

1. Laying a layer of brick stones around a grave for identifying the presence of a grave but not building anything over the grave, is it permitted or not? Does it come under the category of a pukka grave which is prohibited in Shari'ah? We see in Jannatul Baqi that many graves have a demarcation with a layer of rock stones around them.
2. What is the meaning of the statement that 70000 dead will be taken out from a single grave on the Day of Resurrection? The numbers 7, 70, 700, 70000 are used in Hadiths and in the Quran to describe different situations. Can we take these numbers in the literal sense or do they convey any other meaning?

Q: I have a question regarding shahadat that whether a shaheed person will also get punishment for his sins or Allah Ta'ala excuses all his sins?

Q: Are women allowed to visit the graveyard? Is the ruling different for Hanafi and Shafee women?

Q:  Is it better to raise the graves a little like that of a camels hump or better to flatten it like how its done in Jannatul Baqee?

Q: What is the virtue if one passes away on a Friday?

Q: Please forward me the masalah for conducting ghusl on the dead.