Q: I am 25 years of age, no proposal came for marriage, moreover even my parents don't want me to get married for the next 2 years. I feel lonely, all my friends are either engaged or married. I can't tell it to my parents that I want to get married as I am a girl. Please give me some wazifa, that I can read, in order to be blessed with a suitable spouse. We also don't have sufficient means to arrange my marriage.
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Q: I am in grade 10 and I am not paying any attention in school or in any of my studies I am very defensive and have a don't care attitude towards life. What should I do?
Q: I am very weak in my nafs and cannot control my self in improving my life to strive to fulfil my endeavours. I want to get education and become financially sound, but my nafs doesn't allow make me. I am lazy. Please advise me what to do?
Q: If I have done premarital sex with a married boy and we both love each other. Please mujhe btaein ke mujhy kia karna chahye ke Allah maaf kar day?
Q: Is it true that we should stick to one ulama group regarding fatwa or can we check others as well. Sometimes even in the same Mazhab ulama have different views on the same topic e.g women cutting her hair etc.
Q: I am married to a girl. In my short age and its five years of marriage now she is not taking care of me and my family. We have done love marriage and no one is happy. She is also involved with another guy also. I forgave her a lot of times but she didn't become true again. Now I have left her at her home and want a divorce from her and even I have contact with another girl who loves me a lot and even we have close relation like we have done kisses and hugs not more than that. I also want to marry her. Could you please tell me is my nikaah already raised with her and what will I do to solve this problem because my first wife don't want to leave me and this one also don't want to leave me as we are in a close relation?
Q: I would like some advise. Say for example if a girl is in a relationship, being Muslim, gets involved sexually then the boy doesn't marry her as his family want him to marry his cousin. Then the girl gets married and the husband finds out about her past. Puts her through hell. The girl is repenting to Allah. Her husband isn't practising but preaches about what Islam says about this kind of sin. Shouts at her, swears at her, swears at her parents and brothers and sisters. Talks about surat un nissa and says things like you and your family are all sinners. Taunts her when she tries to pray and says things like hijab doesn't suit you because you are a sinner. Blames her for his depression and say that she and her parents lied to him. He says that she should have disclosed all this before she got married to him and this wouldn't have happened. He is clinically depressed but the doctor is obviously going to believe what he tells them. Has insomnia and blames his wife for it all. When he got married he said that his parents don't want to be involved in his marriage but have said that he can go ahead and get married. So basically they met online. On a marriage website. The girl had permission from her parents to look for a husband online, told them about him an they were happy till they found out that his parents didn't want to get involved. Upon the insistence of the girl her parents reluctantly agreed. He brought all his friends and colleagues to his wedding and to this day his parents don't know that he is married. He now has two children. He calls his wife a liar, doesn't bath after sex for days on end. Has to be pushed by wife to have a bath. He became physically violent everytime she argued about her past with her and started to slap, punch kick, jump, pull her hair, give her black eyes. Never wants to pray and says that your behaviour with people should be good etc i.e. huqooq ul ibad or something. It is getting better now but still he talks to himself loudly so she can hear him when he say things like tauba from these people in uk etc. When he shouts at her he makes her sin seem ten times worst than it was i.e I bet you wore this for him and and I bet you did that with him and blames things that didn't happen. Blames her for sleeping with non muslims, sikhs and blacks, etc. Please advise am at my wits end and don't know if I should wait for things to get better or what. I pray to Allah as much as I can.
Q: What duas can I read and what can I do so my exams become easy? What dua can be read to strengthen my memory?
Q: My husband is working in Jeddah in a telecommunication company for the last 4 years. His job is good but the problem is that he has technical experience and he was recruited for a technical role. After he got recruited he is doing a non technical job for the last 4 years without any promotion and salary increase. He is worried about his future because his technical growth has stopped and he is not getting a technical job offer for the last 4 years. Could you please tell us something to read so that he can get the technical job he wants with career growth. Alhamdulillah both of us try to pray regularly. Please answer my question, I can not see my husband upset.