Women's Issues

Iddat period after khula

Q: I wanted to ask what is my iddat period after khula? The reason behind khula was that my husband dont come near me or talked to me for 3 years inspite of living in the same house. We lived like strangers under one roof sleeping in different rooms.

Doubts regarding foster relationship

Q: Three years ago I heard my aunt saying that she once gave me drink from my cousins bottle and I think she turned to me and said "your cousin is your foster sister " im not sure if I heard that other if that's just in my head..my aunt said that infront of my baby brother who was breastfeeding at that time .. now I asked my aunt about the matter she said "it must of been cow milk or something "but I fear she might be forgetting I really don't want any problems in the hereafter so under the most strict islamic law am i allowed to marry my cousin? I have doubt I still think there is a chance I could of drank her breast milk and she is forgetting

Reciting Surah Mulk during haidh

Q: I have heard that reciting Surah Mulk daily can safe from torment of grave after death..I intend to recite this Surah daily..can I recite it during days of menses without touching the Holy Quran?Moreover,I have also practice of the Holy Quran daily..Can I continuous the same practice during the days of menses?plz guide

Reverting to one's old habit in haidh

Q: I am a mazoor due to non stop bleeding for 5-6 months. I stay away for ten days and pray for twenty days.. The time of my regular flow changed and I have to read salah in the time of heavy bleeding.. Most of the time its amount is very small.. Now I am on my medication and a yellowish discharge is happening so the doctor told me that it is not blood.. I talked with wife of an aalim and she told me that it is haidh.. The doctor told me that after 21 days regular heavy flow will happen and 9 days have gone by of 21 days.. I left salah on 28 july and started on 7 july (4days from today).. Now am I mazoor so do I have to pray in the heavy flow days? Do I have to use tissue when praying salah?

Haidh

Q: Regarding haidh:

- May 3rd spotting

- May 9th bleeding started

- May 18th ended

- June 2nd spotting

- June 3rd bleeding started

- ended around 15th june

- June 28th, 29th spotting  

- July 1st abd 3rd spotting

- July 3rd

- July 5th bleeding started

So my question is regarding July as my bleeding lasted around 10 days. So do I start counting from 5th July or 28th June, because I assume from my habit that my bleeding will stop around 14th July,