Zikr & Dua

Q: 

1. Kindly advise which dua is correct:

a. اللهم انت مقصودي و رضاك مطلوبي Or

b. اللهم انت مطلوبي و رضاك مقصودي

2. In the above mentioned dua; should one say رضاك or رضائك?

Q: Hazrat Zain-ul-Abideen (R.A) narrates that whosoever recites or listens to the recitation of the following dua anytime between sunrise and sunset on the day of 'Ashura, then it shall act as a guarantee for his life the following year and he shall not encounter death. If he was to experience death that year then he shall not be capable in reciting this dua by coincidence. My question is, is this narration authentic. The barelvi part of my family insists on its importance.

Q:

1. What is tasbeeh-e-faatimi?

2. When should it be read?

3. What is the virtue of tasbeeh-e-faatimi?

Q: When making Dua should we say Insha'Allah when begging Allah for our needs.

Q: Authenticity of reading Durood e Tunjeena in abundance for any problems or need.

Q: Whats the significance of reading Surah Yaseen with the 7 Mubeens. Is it authentic?

Q: What Zikr and duas should I recite during the day. And how many times is the best?

Q: I have heard that saying aameen to a dua is like making the dua yourself. Sometimes when we listen to recorded Islamic lectures on a CD, the person giving the lecture makes dua. If we say "Aameen" to this dua, will this too be counted as if we said the dua ourselves, even if the dua comes from a recording?

Q: What should be recited while burning lobaan?