Tahaarat

Preparing in advance for Salaah due to urine problems

Q: Islam is a religion of ease not of hardship, it is very well mentioned in the Qur'an and hadith about this easiness. I am suffering from urine incontinence. I have realised that I am not a mazoor, but for praying one namaaz I have to make wudhu 3 to 4 time and every time I have to wash my private part, whether I pray on time or later I have to face this hardship. It is really very difficult. So why there is hardship when there is so much easiness in Islam? I am missing my salaah because I can't take this hardship. I am really upset with myself because I can't worship my Allah who has given me so much. Please help find a easy way for me.

Discharge coming onto one's clothing

Q: I went with my family to a family friends event while I was there. I don't think I thought of anything inappropriate (sexual) not that I know of. When I came home I used the bathroom and when I was washing myself there was a lot of discharge but I don't know if it was because of thinking about something inappropriate at the gathering we went to. I washed 3-6 times. There wasn't a lot of discharge on my underwear just the normal one. Am I napaak as I don't know what it came from? If I am using my phone and sleeping on my stuff is it now napaak? Are the fancy clothing I wore their napaak? There isn't any discharge on them?

Can a ma'zoor lead the Salaah

Q: I have already received a reply from muftionline that I cannot make imaamat if I suffer from urinary incontinence. What happens if I live in a small town and I'm the only one that could lead the namaaz and I suffer from urinary incontinence then will I be able to lead the namaaz?