Tahaarat

Cleaning urine

Q:

1. I was in my mother's house and my son urinated on my mom. My mum dried the urine with a tissue and mopped the area once. Then she washed my son just by wiping him with wet hands. I feel that he has not been cleansed properly. I brought him to my house immediately because wherever he touches with wet hands will become naajis since I still didn't wash him properly. The areas that he touched with his hands became naajis, so do I have to wipe that area that he touched also?

2. There are soiled urine clothes. Previously I used to wash them in a bucket 3 times but I don't squeeze the water out. Must I wash the clothes and clothes dryer rack again or will just wiping the clothes dryer rack suffice? 

Becoming a ma'zoor due to constant discharge

Q: I have read on many trusted sites that, urethral discharge is impure. However, if someone is getting this discharge a lot and it is difficult to control, can they be excused from washing it constantly? I experience a lot of anxiety and stress and is probably why I am getting this type of discharge. I know from experience. I don't want to be stuck in the toilet for a long time or use a lot of water.

1. So what can I do? I've read somewhere else that a girl used to experience this discharge because of severe headaches, so she was advised that its not the normal urethral discharge.

2. Doesn't it make you najis because its coming out of the place where urine comes out?