Q: Kal raat me hotel ma kise aur larki ky sath rat guzari pir ma buhut tension me ta kio ke ma ne mangne ki he. Is liya my bhut pareshan ho. Phir ma Allah ko roya ke ay Allah, mujy map parmady. Ayenda ma aisa nahe karongi. Bohut dafa ma ne Allah sa mafi mange laiken my aab tension ma ho ky Allah mujy map kar dyga ka nahe.
Q: Please meri islaah kijiye. Mera maslah ye he ke mera bachpan se mamu zad se rishta bola hua tha ke hum ek dusre ko pasand karte he or dil dimag me yehi he ke hmari shadi ek dusre se hi hogi. Ghar me sab yehi kehte the. Ab mera us ladke se rishta bhi tey ho gaya. Me bahut educated hu or wo kam pdha likha he or zyada dolatmnd bhi nahi he lekin mujhe iski garaz nhi h pr ab meri ammi ye shadi nhi krna chahti wo kehti h k wo tere layaq nhi h log kya kahege k itna pdha likha kr ese se shadi krdi. M bahut zyada preshan hu kyuki 13 sal se hmare dil dimag m ye bat h k hmari shadi hogi pr ab ye sb. ammi kisi syrat nhi smjhti ghr m behas hoti h. meri umar 29 sal hogyi h ab b ammi ko lgta h k jb koi or acha rishta aayga wha krege hm. Mere abbu ka inteqal ho chuka h or 2 bhai h wo b ammi ki bat ko tarjeeh dete h.. m apni ammi ko dukh nhi dena chahti lekin mera kahi or shadi krne ka b mn nhi krta. plz aap btaiye m kya kru. Slaah dijiy or koi wazaif b btaiye jisse meri preshani hal ho jaye.
Q: Mai ye janana chahta hun ki Agar koi ladka kisi ladki se pyar karta hai aur uska us ladki se shaadi ho jata hai To kia us ladke ki kismat mai wo ladki thi aur agar wo us ladki se pyar nhi karta to us ladke ka wo biwi banti bahut ladke jab unke maa baab razi nahi hote hai to bhaag jr shaadi kr leten h our nikah ho jata h to kia wo log jo bhaag k shaadi kie wo unki kismat mai likha tha Ki ye khud se sochne wali chij hai mujhe batain please.
Q: Mai jis ladki se nikaah karnay wala tha, us ladki ki marzi sirf mujh se nikah ki thi. Shuru me ladki ki maa ki marzi bhi thi lekin ek acha rishta aaya to ladki ki maa nay ladki ko taweez de k us ki shaadi karwa dii us ki marzi k khilaaf. Ladki nay nikah kar b liya mujhay bataya take nahi lekin ladki me nikah ke aglay din ro ro ke kaha ke mai khush nahi hoon. Aaj raat ko mujhay khawab me ladki aayi vo ro rhi thi. Mainay poocha ghar waloon me zabrdasti shaadi karwai. Wo bolti haan aur bolti mai wahan shaadi nahi krni but ab shaadi to ho gayi. Mai dua kar raha hoon ke un ka talaq ho jaye aur hum donu nikah karain gay. Aap mujhay istikhaara kar ke batao ke mai unki talaq ka wait karoon aur ladki pe jo jaadu ya taweez maa nay lagain hain us ka kaat kar dejiye. Please help me. Mai bhi ladki ke begair soch soch ke pagal ho raha. Sabar nahi ho raha.
Q: Me shaadi shuda hun. Mujy ek larki jo bohat garib he us sey payar ho gaya hiy jab ke mery teen bachey hiy bari bati 6 ki or last bati 3.5 year ki hiy us larki sey me ne shaadi ka wada keya us ny apni famely sey baat ki. Wo lowg razi ho gey or kushi kushi min shadi ki tyari karny lagey. Ab shaadi min 3 din rahy gaey. Me ne ye baat apni famely sey chupa rakhi he. Ab me kya karoo. Wada khilaafi karoo ya shadi karoo mujy kuch samaj nahi araha he. Me kya karoo. Please help kary.
Q: Meri tabiyyat achanak ghabrana shoro ho jati hai. Ajeeb tarha ki uljhan hoti hai kuch accha nahi lagta sub cheezon se dil uchat ho jata hai. Ye bechaini roz baroz badhti chali ja rahi hai. Please mujhe iska hal batayen. Allah apko eska ajar de ga.
Q: Me bogot pareshaan hu. aajkal ne reshta ata hain or jab ajate hain to pasand nahi krty. Phir sochti hu mere nasib me koi ni huga.Job tu milti ni hain ghr me bet kr depression hugi hain . Khudkhoshi ka buht sochti hu qk parents ni hain bhai k sath rhti hu wo khty hain boj hu hum pr. Me bi tu insan hu koi achi jga reshta hu jy tu zindagi bn jy.
Q: Meri two year ki beti sotay me boht daant paisti he owr raat ku bht disturb nend soti hy. Please koi tip abta dain.
Q: Mera masla zara gaur se padhe aur shariyat ka ky huqum hai iss mamleme hame rahenuma kare Baat darasal ye hai ke mere bhai ki shaddi 10 mahine pahle hui aur wo job ke silsel se bhar hi rahte lakin bhabhi jab bhi ghar bulati wo sab kam bajume rakh kar leave le ke ghar aajate aur mahine me one week bhabhi ke sath hi rahte ...aur bhabhi se be-inteha mohabbat karte hai aur jaha tak bhabhi ka sawal hai unhe to khana bhi barabar banana nhi ata ...shaadi ke wqt bole ke sab kuch ata hai fir bhi yaha hum logo ne khana pakana sikhye ...wo apne shoahr ki farma bardari nahi karti ...das baar koi baat bolne per ek baar sunti ... bhai ne bole hui kam nahi karti ...yaha tak ki namaz nahi padti ...quran nhai padti ...parda nahi karti ...ye sab bhai ne force kar ke karwate .... aur bar bar maiyke chali jati ..bhai ke mana karne ke bad bhi ..kai bar to bhai hote hui maiyke chali gaye ..bhai ne use samjaya aise mat kiya karo alkin koi fiyda nahi ..fir mere wailden ne samjaya kuch din acche rahti bad me jaise ke waise ...phir bhi ne unki sas ke samne ye bat rahki ..kuch din ke bad fir waise hi chalu ...fir bhai ne sasur ke same ye bat ki ...to kuch din ke bad fir waise hi ...baar bar ghar chod ke jane ke dhamki deti bhai ko ...koi kam me dil nahi lagata tha bhabhi ka aur bhai ne jab biwi ke huqooq ke bayan sunaye to bhai ko kahti tumare paas sab byana hai kya kio songs aur movies nahi hai kya.. Bayan sunane ke bad bhi koi frak nahi pada kuch din sab karti bad me wahi apni akad dekhati ...aur to aur bhai ne ekdam sede aur sunnat takrike se shaadi ki ...aur bhabhi se kaha tha tumari jo bhi zarurte hai sahaddi ke bad wo sab bhai poori karenge aur ek shohar hone ka haqq mere bhai ne bahot acchese nibhaya ...kisebhi bhabhi ke rishtedar se poocho to wo yahi kahte ki tumri beti ke kismat bahot acche hai uske shohar uski har ek zarurat ka bahot khyal rakhta hai ... Aur us ke bad bhabhi ne ek din ye bataya ke Shaddi se phele wo apne chachre bhai ke sath pyar karti thi aur 4 se 5 sal us ke sath zina bhi kiya aur to aur uske chachare bhai ne uski sab gandi taswere lake useka bahot jismani fiyda uthya ...aur uske dostone ne bhi .. aur usne uske sath shaddi bhi nahi ke aur bas har baar uska nazayaz faiyda uthta tha ... itna sab hone ke bad usne bahi se mafi magi ...bhai ne maaf kardiya aur uski zindagi kharab nahi honna bolke use sath hi rakaha. kuch nahi kiya ...aab ye bat ke wo taswere us ke chachere bhai se kaise nikale aur aage jake koi pareshni na ho bolke ...unhone apne saas aur sasre ko ghar per bulaye .. aur baar bar bhabhi bhi kahti ke wo taswere us se hasil karna hai ye sab soch ke bhai ne bhabhi ke walidain ko bat karne bulaye...aur ye baat sir bhabhi ne bhai ko batye ...bhabhi ke wailden ko iske bare me kuch nahi malum tha ...kam as kam bhabhi ne shaddi se phale ye baat apne waliden ko batana tha na ...unhone aisa kiya nahi . bhai ke saas aur sasre akle nahi aye wo apne poore logo ko leke aye 10 se 15 jents aur 5 se 7 ladies ...aur bhai par tohmat lagaye ke bhai ne apne hi biwi ko force kiya ke aise bol bolke .. aur jab bhabhi se sab ne pooch sach kya hai to bhabhi kaha mere shohar ne muje force kare ye sab bolne ke liya to maine bola ...aur bhai ke uper najne kya kya ilzam lagaye ye muj per shaak karte ....aur bhahes bahot badh gayi ...aur humare pass hum ne kise ko bhi nahi bulaye bhai aur pitaji dono hi ...bhabhi sab logo ke samne mukar gaye aur apne hi shohar ko ke upar tohmat lagne lagi aur boli ke mai aise nahi hu maine aisa kuch bhi nahi kiya ye sab zoot hai ...mai igusse me thi isswaje se boldiya... aur uske bad wo log zabardasti bhabhi ko sath leke chale gaye ...hala ke bhai ne ijzat nahi di thi bhabhi ko jane ke ...bhai ke sasur bole meri beti ko mere sath bhjo nahi to mai yahi khudkhushi kardunag to hum log sab khamosh ho gaye aur wo bhabhi ko le ke chale gaye ... Bhaibhi ne mere waliden ke sugar blood pressure badha diya ....sab ko tension de kar wo chai gaye ..... uske bad bhi bhai ne apne sasur ko call kiya ...bhabhi ke uncle ko call kiya lakin wo log call nahi uthare ...phir mere khala ke ladkene bhabhi ke chacha ko jakar baat akri ..unhone bataya wo logo ki tabiyat kharab hai bad me baat karenge ...fir mere walid ne un logo ko call kiya wo log koi bhi jawab nahi de rahe hai .... aaj ek mahine se ziyada ho gaya hai wo logo ne call bhi nahi kiya aur hamara call bhi nahi uthya ...jo kuch baaat hui thi wo bhabhi ke maum aur uncle se hui thi aur wo bole ke ..ladaka hamri bacchi ko torcher karta hai ...aur sata hai ..aur sahakh karta hai ... aur yahi baat unhone mere walid se bhi kahi jab mere walid ne unhe call kiya tab. Mera bhai to panjwaqta namzi hai ..shaddi ke bad bhabhi ko to bahar gumane bhi le gaye aur to aur bhabhi jo cheej ko dehkh le bhai use kharid lete bhabhi ke liye ... agar koi aake bedroom dekhenga to samaj jayenga ke kya kya nahikharida bhai ne bhabhi ke liea har ek pasand bhaibhi ke kharidlate. aur ek baat bhabhi bhai ke samne ek bat karti aur unke aur mere waidain ke same alag bat karti ...jo bhai ke same qubool karti wo sab ke samne nahi karti .. aur bhabhi bahi ko to bahot satati bhi thi lakin bhai ne kise ko nahi bataya ...aur na mere waliden bhabhi ko kise baat ke liea kuch bolte na fir unhe satate. aab aise sitwation me hume kya karna chaiye ...shariyat kya huquum deti hai ..humari rahnumai kare ... Aap apna zawab zara tafsil se de taki sab kuch samajne me asani ho.
Q: Mera ayk sawaal hai ki hamare ghar mein kisi ki ghibat karna kisi ki choghli karna aur dosre ghar walaon ko bora bhalai kehna ye sab hamare ghar mein aam baad hai. Kya ise rookna ghalat hai main jabbhi in chizaon se rookta hon to mere waaleda sab bhaiyon ke nazar mein gira detin hain. Kya main ghalat hon kya ye mera rook na meri walidain ki izzat na karne mein shamil hai? Aur mere chote bhai aur mere bade bhai kehte hain ki main ghalat hon aur kehte hain ki main apne apko accha banne ka diqawa karta hon.