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Q: Mera sawal mian biwi sy mutalaq hai eik biwi jo apny shohar ko izzat pyar sab jo Allah ny hukum dia karti hai achy bury time ma us ka har trh sy sath dyti bachon ki parwarish deen dunia dono sikha kar karti is per ky us ka shohar anparh hai per ussy kabhi is ka ahsas tak nahi hony dia us ki marzi ky kuilaf koi qadam nahi uthaya aesi aurat ky bary islam kiya khta? Shohar ny hamesha biwi bachon ko bojh samjha betion ko bojh kaha bachon ko baap ki trh ka pyar nahi dia bachon ko aj tak shikayat ky baap ny kabhi apna nahi samjha bachon ny kabhi baap sy koi farmaish nahi ki kabhi jawab nahi dia jis haal rkha khushi khushi rhy sabr ky sath aj ky dour ma jahan aoulad ky samny baap nahi bol sakta phir us baap ny eik dosri aurat aur pasy ky liye apni biwi ko talaq dydi bachon ko bola mery sath chlna chlo warna mujhy kabhi contact nahi karna bachon ny maa ky sath rhna pasand kia maa ny betion ki shadi ki beton ko parhaya mehnat ki apni aoulad ky liye aesi biwi aur bachon ky liye kia hukum hai islam ma kia yeh maa gunhagar hogi aur kia mard hi shadi kar sakta aurat ky liye ijazat nahi q ky woh bachon ki maa hai kia mard bachon ka baap nahi hota 70 saal ki umer ma bhi shadi karsakta aur aurat ky liye mumkin nahi q?

Q: Mian ka bv ki baat na mane par kya saza hai? Aur many par kya ajar? Aur bv ka mian ki baat na mane par kya saza hai? Aur many par kya ajar hai?

Q: Me ek IT company me working hu, married hu mjh bht hi kam tym milta h ibadat ka , kya aap mjh bata sakte h ki minimum kya ibadat zaruri h agr hmne roza rakha h to use pura krne k liye, me monday thursday ka nafil roza rakhti hu.

Isk alawa mera sabse badi parishani h ki mera man nhi krta namaz padne ko mere shoar b bht bolte h but me unk khne p padti b hu to adhe man se. ek saal phle tk mera niyam tha ki km se kam ek bar yaseen to pad hi leti thi but ab wo b dil nhi chahta kuch solution batae mjh khuda k kehar se dar to bht kgta ki na jane meri is harkt se kya saza milegi but tab b me pure man se kuch nhi kr pati.

Q: Mera rishta tai hogaya hai, kisi ko koi aitraz nhi, rishta boht saal pahle hua, meri padhai ki waja se shadi me deri horahi thi, padhai to hogai, lekin ab bhi shadi ke liye 2 sal baki hai meri age 26 hai uski 22, wo meri rishtdar hi hai, mera uske yaha jana aana hota hi hai, isliye koi parda nhi lekin mujhe ye munasib nhi lagta, to kya mai usse nikah abhi karsakta hu baad me bidai ke liye kahduga, fir to kya nikah ke baad mera usse milna baat karne Ki ijazat hogi...

Q: Mere 2 bete hain woh dono deen se dur ho rahe hain mujhr koi cheez padhne ke liye bataiye jis se woh deen ke raste pe chale. Woh apne walid ke sath rehte hain dusri shehr me

Q: Biwi shadi se 3 saal pehlay ak larkay kay sath sex karti rahi ha shadi kay din kay bad mujy sub kuch pata chal gaya hai lakin ma kiya karo kuch samaj nahi ata har waqat tension se rehti hai kiya asi biwi ko rakhna chahiya or nahi mere shadi ko 2 saal ho gay hai or ak bacha bhi hai

Q: Mra ek masla ha ap please rehnumai farmaen. Meri choti behan ki shadi hone wali hai or shadi shari tariqay se nahi horhi hai partition hoga par proper nahi or photographer b aega. Ab ap mujhe bataiye k mujhe shadi ma jana chahie ya nahi?

Q: Mujhy apny husband k bary me sawal karna hai. Mujhy apny husband se had se ziada mohabbat hai jis ki waja se mai bht baar disheart hoti hun,yahan tak k un k bagher dil na lagna apny meky me bhi bus unk sath rehna har waqt pasand hai, mery husband bhi bht achy hain bht caring bhi hain lekin agar mery husband mjhy tawaja na den kbhi to main bht ziada disheart hojati hun, jesy deen ka taqaza hai aj kal karachi ijtima qareeb hai or mery husband raat late night tak gasht karna chahty hain or asar se wese bhi ghar par nhi hoty mery buchay bhi nhi hain main akeli hoti hun is liye raat me mujh se akela nhi raha jata mujhy bht ziada dar lagta hai mera room bhi chat par hai jis ki waja se main bht darti hun lekin mery husband phir bhi chaly jaty hain unka kehna bhi ghalat nhi k deen ki khatir qurbani deni hogi yeh or aisa nhi hai k main deen k liye qurbani nhi dena chahti main qurbani dena chahti hun lekin yahan main bht majbur hun mjh se rat me nhi raha jata or main chahti hun woh raat k waqt me na jaen mery sath rahen mujhy bht ziada dar lagta hai main is mamly me kia karun? or is k ilawa mery andar sexual desire bht ziada hai jo mery husband us tarah puri nhi kar pa rahy aaj kal jesy main chahti hun jiski waja se main bht depressed hun main unhe kisi waqt chuuna chahun or unhe koi or taqaza hota hai kahin jany ka to woh mana kar dety hain or wesy bhi us tarah puri nahi kar pa rahy jesa main chah rahi hun to main tarap jati hun, woh isi saal 3 mah laganay k liye abhi buchy nahi karna chahty woh kehty hain pehly 3 mah lag jaen us baad karengy warna main 2 saal tak nahi ja sakungi jiski waja se woh azal kar rahy hain lekin mujhy us me satisfaction nhi mil rahi mai chahti hun azal na karen is me mujhy bataen mai kia karun? mai chahti hun meri mohabbat me tehrao ajaye or mai bhi aam bewion ki tarah ho jaun , or main itni ziada be taab na rahun mery andar se sexual desires bhi kum hojaye magar main koshish k bawajud bhi nahi ho pati mujhy koi aisi dua bata den k meri mery husband k liye mohabbat me tehrao ajaye main normally aam bewion ki tarah ho jaun.

Q: Meri age 27 he. Nikah k 4 mahino me ek hadsa me meri shohar ka intikal ho gaya. Meri koi bache nhi he. Dua kijiye mere shohar k liye. Kya mujpe zaruri he dusra nikah kar na Islam me? Iska kya hukum he?

Q: Meri shadi ko 5 saal ho gye hai. 2 bache bhi hai. Mere shohar jo hai, mai aksar unse satisfied nhi ho pati. Wo peshe se wakil hai. Mera dil bhi aksar unki taraf mutmain nhi hota. Bht dua kari phir bhi becheni hi dil mai rehti hai. Woh puri rat porn mobile mai dekhte hai aur phir fajr bhi padhte hai. Kbhi kbhi qaza bhi. Depression ki goliya nhi chup chup k khate hai mujhse. Samajh nhi aata kia karu. Kbhi agar unse kuch baat krti hun to aksar arguement pe aa jate hai. Isliye khamosh hi rehti hun bht ghutan hone lagi hai mujhe. Ekbar ki baat hai yeh mujhe apne bhai k ghr leke jaana chahte the. Waha bepardagi bht hoti hai. Aurat mard bilkul freely batchit krte hai. Dosto ki biwiya bhi. Mujhe ye sab pasand nhi. Mene mana kia to bat badh gyi. Yaha tak kh gye wo ke dekhna ekdin dusri shadi karunga aur s ukin ki zindagi guzarunga. Pta nhi jabse hi bht ukhde ukhde rehte hai bht manaya. Absabkuch daily routine pe hai. Mai bhi ghr ka kam aur wo court. Per esa lagta hai hamara dil ekdusre se dur hai. Ek nahi hai. Puri raat porn dekhte hai, ladkyon k photo dekhte hai mobile mai. Kiaa karu? Koi tariqa k wo ye sab chod de aur mere ho jaye dil se.