Q: I have said to my wife on telephone call "that I divorce you". This is the first time I said this.
1: Can I take back my divorce without intercourse as she is in a different country and we cant meet now? So can I take back verbally only?
2: My wife is a doctor, so during iddat can she work as a Doctor in her country?
3: Me and wife live in seperate countries so can she do her iddat in her own country or is it necessary that she lives with me during iddat?
Q: My sister got divorce from her husband few days back, but she is 7 month pregnant. So kindly give fatwah if pregnant women can be divorced or not. She and her husband have not touched each other since last 5 months.
Q: My husband divorced me and then we had sexual relations a month later. Are we still divorced or does that mean the marriage is back on.
Q: We want to know if three talaaqs in one sitting done out of anger over the telephone is valid.
Q: In the past I had some disputes with my wife. Alhamdulillah things are better now. However, sometimes I have waswasa if divorce may be occurred.
I have several questions but biggest one I will ask now others maybe later. One such instance is as follows that I would like to ask. We had been separated for several months. There was a meeting with some elders about our marriage and it was decided to give us 1 month more to sort things out to get back together. At the end of this meeting, I said something to one of the elders like "okay so we have 1 month to work things out, if things work out she will be back within 1 month and if not then..." and I basically stopped and there was non-verbal expressions. I did not mention "divorce" in that sentence and neither do I believe that was my intention. However, I did sort of in a way imply divorce and afterwards I mentioned to others as well that "we have a 1 month time limit to work things out".
We got back together but a couple of weeks past 1 month. After 1 month passed, I started getting waswasa that maybe I had stated a conditional divorce which I did not realize earlier.
I do believe although I was implying that things will not work out if it goes past one month, I did not intend it to be a conditional divorce upon one month but rather that a decision of divorce would have to be made (so basically I was saying something like so we have 1 month to make a decision).
I don't believe my understanding was that divorce would take place automatically after 1 month, but rather that a decision would have to be made. After 1 month but before we got back together, as part of a conversation I also said something to my wife like "We had 1 month time limit, if things worked out you would be back if not we would be ending it" or something similar like "if not things would be over".
I just want to know if this was conditional divorce. Again I did not use the word of divorce and I don't believe it was my intention.
Q: I got divorced two year ago, then one year ago I married again with some other person but got divorced again. So I want to ask may I again marry with my first husband? Is it halaal?
Q: My wife wants khula. She is 7 months pregnant and she doesn't want to continue with this marriage. If I give khula then what will be the responsibility on me as the khula is on her request.
Q: Me and my wife often have verbal fights. One day after a verbal fight she asked me to leave her and said, "Mujhay chor kyun nahi daytay" In extreme anger I replied ,"Jao tumhain chor dia" and repeated thrice but I didnt intend divorce nor I know that these words may intend for divorce so we ignored and spent normal married relation. After months of this incident, one day my wife started having doubts that perhaps the words I used are intended for divorce. Now we both are so worried and dont know whether we are divorced or not. Please guide us.
Q: If a man divorces his wife for the frst time but then they reunite and every thing sorted out. Again after a period of time they again got divorced and again they remarry and everything sorted out but the third time if a man asked his wife that he is going abroad and not to go out without his permission otherwise it'll be considered a divorce. So now is it considered a final divorce? I mean if in this situation is it considered 3 divorces at a time because she went out without his permission... and if both are willing to live together for the sake of children is it possible for them to do so without 'halaala'. Kindly can I get your copy of fatwa regarding this as it is a serious domestic issue.
Q: I am a patient of chronic depression, in other words I am suffering from bi-polar depression and it was diagnosed by psychiatric and I am having extreme mood swings as well. Once in this condition I gave my wife many talaqs. Actually I uttered the word TALAQ many times. Is my talaq valid?