Talaaq

Q: I need to discuss my problem and its solution. I'm married for the last one year. Its the second marriage of my husband but my first. We live in different cities due to training purposes. Last Sundy 2nd of july 2017 we had some fight and while arguing i became furious and starting beating him. I get panic attacks and it happening for the last 2 years when i used strong dose anxiolytics..but it was ok since our marriage until for last 2months when i again started having sme attacks.i beat him so much and said to leave me..v left the dinning table and went to bed room where i cintinued beting him and forcing him to leave me right nw.it wasnt my intention and i wasnt even expecting that he would say anything..but finally he uttered the words"ok ok i give u divorce". Which in original words were"thek h theek h me day daita hun talaaq ,day daita hun talaaq ,day daita hun talaaq". It was all of sudden when v realised wht happened.i left the home at the same moment and no cntct since then..v had sexual realtion on that early morning sunday the sMe day when he said those words..now i asked him yesterday wether he was in his senses and what was thinking t that time.he said i was not in anger and when u were forcing i was thinking to use some word that vill satisfy u at that moment and u calm down.but finally i utered these words without thinking anything. Now sir please help me..i dnt want to be seperated ..as i want to live with him.some sayes that divorce at the time of impurity is not valid .and some says that three at once is the single one ..and even some says that ur intention matters at that moment.please help me in this situation sir..mm really worried

Q: My husband told my mum last year that he divorces me twice in one sitting. He later said he doesn't remember this and following saying it he smashed his phone. He said it was as if he was not present when saying it, he didnt realise. Is this counted as talaq or ighlaq? I can only take his word for it. Since then, he has said many times that 'main khatam karna chahta hun aj' meaning I want to end it today. But when asked he says he has no intention of divorce and it was only in anger. I cannot live my life as I don't know if I am married anymore.

Q: My wife and I were having a conversation. We were talking about something regarding the sleeping patterns of our child. She wanted to try a different technique for our child who wakes up often at night to feed. I made the statement "Why don't you go to your parents house and try it". Prior to making this statement my intention was she go to her parents house for holiday. However I was aware that certain statements of this nature may constitute talaq. While I was making the statement, the thought and feeling came in my mind that my intention is talaq. I suffer from waswasa with certain things like whudu and salaah.

Does this constitute talaq?

Q: My sister and brother in laws abuse me very badly so I told my husband that I won't cook food for them. Then my husband said that if you won't cook food for them then I have also one condition that you have to leave your mother forever and never talk to her otherwise our relationship is over. On this condition I decided to go to my parents home then my husband stopped me by saying that do whatever you want but don't go. Then we started living as husband and wife but again he started forcing me to cook food for them and the argument continued but one night on 6 October 2016, I told my husband that why are you always forcing me to cook food for them as I have told you that I won't cook. Than my husband said that I have also told you that leave your mother otherwise our relationship is over talaak. Since then I am living with my parents. My husband says that come back I have not given you a talaak. Please tell me whether I am divorced or not?

Q: If my wife make intercourse with another person, will the talaq be executed automatically?

Q: If the wife asked the husband for talaq and the husband, in a joking way said that I give you 3 talaq. He was not serious, in a funny way he said that I give you 3 talaq. So will it be talaq?

Q: My friend's husband gave her talaq on stamp paper. He wrote three times talaq with my friends name, three times full sentence. He signed it. Two witnesses signatures also there and court stamp is also there. My question is, is this divorce valid and does it count as one divorce?

Q: I am separated from my husband for more than 6 months. My husband tries to arrange meeting and reconciliation but I dont want to go to my husband's home. Now my husband sends me notices that if i do not come within a particular date, it will be declared as a khula as I am not interested in any reconciliation done from my husband and he can get married again. If i don't reply or go on that particular date, will the khula take place? What will be the iddat period?

Q: If someone performs black magic on a married couple for the husband to divorce the wife and the husband divorces her, then is this divorce valid?

Q: Unfortunately we grew up in a time when our Islamic knowledge was very limited, hence it lead to a lot of mistakes and sins that we have committed. One being in question is that when we got married we followed the kaafir law of COP not realising and understanding the concept. Today it brings up alot of complications. Living in our country it is very difficult. People have advised us that the only way to rectify this is through an English divorce at the court. I am very afraid of this as the law of talaaq is not a simple issue and I don't want to live in sin and regret. Can Mufti Saheb please advise me on this.