Correct method of issuing talaaq
Q: According to Surah Bakarah, please give full details of talaaq.
Talaaq
Repeating the words of talaaq to confirm the talaaq
Q:
1. My husband and I were in an argument over phone that lasted two hours. He was angry and wasn't listening but he claims now that he was angry but not insane. He said "you are divorced" knowing I was in early pregnancy.
2. I replied immediately in shock by stating "did you just divorce me? Husband said yes, I said "are you divorcing me!" Husband said yes.
3. My husband gave me a first divorce in 2015 but took me back.
4. My husband informed me the words "yes, yes" do count as further divorces & he thinks our marriage is over. My view is that they are simply confirmation of him saying "your divorced" and is considered one talaq and so there is a chance for us to reconcile.
Question - Please can you confirm whether the word "yes" "yes" are additional pronouncements of divorce or just confirmation of his first statement of divorce. Please can you give the answer in accordance with hanafi fiqh only with references and evidences of rulings as my husband will only accept this.
Waswasa about talaaq
Q: I am suffering waswas and doubt problem since last 7 to 8 years 24/7. I think too much might I have suffer from OCD.
Firstly if someone just uttered merely talaq word due to waswasa or record talaq word on mobile than such talaq count? However there is no intention for talaq.
Secondly if someone has merely doubt about talaq then what can he do? I had lots of waswas regarding this waswasa because shaytan always puts doubts in my mind that you have uttered talaq words in past or recent times however I do not remember what exact words or sentence I had uttered. To be honest I really deepress with such a thoughts I had repeat my wudhu, Ghusl and Salah many times because I had always feel I had missed something. How can I overcome from this sitautions? What is the rulling about talaq for such a person my nikah will be intact? I had a doubt on my nikah due to talaq doubt. I have two doubt:
1. Whether I had utter the word or not.
2. If I had utter then which word. Due to waswasa problem might I have utterd something like this or not I am not sure.
Reuniting after khula
Q: I divorced my husband with khula and he say 1 talaq, I finished my iddah 1 month, just 3 months before I want to go back to him for my kids. How can I? Is it possible?
Wife asking the husband for divorce and husband responding with "Ok, fine"
Q: If a woman says to her husband that "okay if you don't want to live with me than divorce me, the husband replied, "Ok, fine" ... does it imply talaq? If yes, than considering the ignorance of the husband that he doesn't know that saying this establishes talaq, still will it be considered as talaq?
Second question, if a husband says to his wife that I don't consider you as my wife. What does it mean? Is this also considered as talaq?
Revoking a talaaq
Q: Me and my wife are living sepeartly. I gave her 1 talaq raji, then the following month gave the 2nd talaq raji, a week later I done ruju stating I take her back with 2 Muslim witness before her iddah waiting time. I sent her a copy of this letter to her regarding this, her and her family don't know what ruju is and they approached a mufti regarding I gave her 2 talaq raji and her iddah waiting time is over, I than received a divorce certificate that I'm divorced, is this right or wrong and if this is wrong what do I do?
Writing and saying talaaq three times
Q: I wrote three times I give divorce my wife in front of my mother but my wife don't know about that but we again together. Then my wife asked divorce I say 3 time divorce and same time wrote 3 times I gave divorce and 2nd or 3rd day in front of lawyer I sign on divorce paper again but within 15 days we again together. After that we sit together and say each other we are doing nikah again. So kindly let me know are we still husband and wife and now we have a son also. Please guide me thanks.
Wife claiming 50% of husband's wealth after divorce
Q: My wife and I are experiencing marital problems. She is demanding a divorce from me. According to the legal system of the country where I reside, in the case of divorce, she has the right to claim 50% of my assets. I have not yet paid her mahr to her. She is now demanding 50% of my wealth as well as her unpaid mahr.
If she takes advantage of the legal system and takes me to court claiming 50% of my wealth, will this wealth be halaal for her according to Shariah and will I still have to give her the outstanding mahr?
Doubts regarding talaaq
Q: I was with my uncle and he said "To hemesha wife ka sath hotien hai humara sath bi waqat guzaru" then I came back to my wife's room and said to her because she was upset with me that I am going somewhere with a friend and then I said to my wife that my uncle says, "kabi biwi ko bi chor diya karo jab dehko wife ka sath" then when I was saying it I was getting feeling about divorce. Are these words of niyyat or not? Then I start getting thought and then I said something I don't remember but now I am afraid maybe something utter metophor word during this. But I don't remember after that, should I pay attention to these because I use to get thoughts of divorce doubt of niyyat and checking whether I utter or not that kind of every day.
Revoking a talaaq
Q: Suppose if I give my wife one talaq by word Insha Allah with the niyah of rejoining we are getting separated, and after that she is not fulfilling iddah. everyother day we are together. We are involved in sexual activity too. I found that that talaq is not valid. So to avoid doubt I said in my heart that I did rujoo in presence of Allah with my wife ( I took name and said daughter of Muhammad Iqbal). Will this talaq be issued? After sexual relationship is our marriage reconcieled automatically?