Talaaq

Ambiguous words of talaaq

Q: Will words like

1. "Go leave , what do you think that I am happy with you.. no I am not ...you are here just because of our daughter otherwise I would have left you long ago "

2) "I cannot take it anymore...leave...i can not do it anymore...she is on her own I don't care anymore" And other things like this mentioning that one is suffocated in the relationship want to end it but he's helpless... would these situations mean that divorce is given?

Does it effect the nikaah if the spouses do not have relations?

Q: Due to our daughter's illness, all our concentration were on her health as she has by birth problem. Me and my wife didn't perform any husband and wife activity since last three years as we are more worried about our daughter's condition and her health. For not performing any action of husband and wife, is there any effect on our Nikaah? All we did is mutually agreed. Please advise.

Husband passing away while the spouses were separated

Q: Me and my husband were living separate and the divorce proceedings were in the court pending . Legally we were not divorced and he never said divorce word to me and while the divorce was pending he passed away his parents and family did not contact me about his passing away and when I said to them he was still my husband because divorce wasn't through yet they said no, in our eyes you are divorced and you have got no right to know he passed away. My question is, was their behaviour right about not letting me know about my husband and telling everyone that they are divorced although divorce wasn't through yet ?

Suspended Talaaq

Q: A person in a great anger says to his wife that if you will do a particular work then three talaqs shall be applicable. After a long time his wife forget what her husband said and she unwillingly did that work (Halaal work). Kindly clarify the status of the couple. They are still living their marriage life as 2 things they feel are in their favor

1- The husband was in great anger.

2- The wife did that by mistake as she had forgot the incident.

Can a woman divorce her husband?

Q: Is a woman allowed to talaaq her husband? My husband doesn't care that our marriage has broken down. We haven't spoken for over 6 weeks and are now in separate rooms. Previously we have done counseling. I requested a separation. Now I have had enough. I'd rather live alone with my children then in a dead marriage.