Drugs and Alcohol

Q: 

1. Alcohol is haraam and prohibited in Islam due to the fact that after having it, a person loses his senses and can not remember what he is doing and also you can get addicted to alcohol. My question is that if someone uses alcohol only for socialising, if he has a  few sips will it be fine or not?

2. There are some drugs which only boost your energy but you remain in your senses, such as cocaine and some other drugs. How does Islam differentiate between them. You remain in your senses but its not alcohol. Red bull drink also boosts the energy. Please explain. 

Winding up an Estate

Q: My Father passed away recently and he did not have a will, he is succeeded by my mother, sister and my 3 brothers. He has said verbally what should happen to his estate but nothing in writing. Just wanted to know how do we sort out the estate?

Black magic

Q: I have a problem with my husband. For few days he is nice to me, then suddenly he changes. He stops talking, blocks my number an all. When he was nice to me my mother in-law used to say to him that I did black magic to be good with me. After some days he changed shockingly. I suspect he is under bad influence. I want to know if he is under black magic and we don't stay together also. How to check? What is the solution to his behavior?

Adoption

Q: We are planning to adopt my sisters baby boy. Can I put my name after the baby's name for legal documentation purposes e.g. birth certificate, passport. Also is it allowed for my wife to take pills so she could breast feed the baby?

Vaginal discharge

Q: If a thick material (ratoobat) of white colour is released at an irregular intervals from the woman's vagina and on drying leaves a light brown brown spot. Does its release break wudu or not?

Does it make clothes napaak?

Is it istihaza? Because it is after haidh and after release of light Brown thick material which lasts for 9 or 10 or more days after haidh.

If thick material (ratoobat) of light brown colour is released at irregular intervals from woman's vagina after the 10 days of haidh and also leaves coloured spot on drying, is it istihaza or not?

It breaks wudu or not?

It makes clothes napaak or not?

After istihaza taking ghusul(bath) is compulsory or not?

Incorrect statement

Q: I have a question. Actually my friend was telling me about mufti tariq Masood's advise to insurance company. I utter it is a good idea. It's better then sadqa and khairyat that can help people life time. Then I was getting feeling inside that maybe you have uttered wrong words saying better then sadqa. I want to know is something wrong I uttered. And also I said to myself wo Deen jo Muhammad (Sallallahu Alayhi Wasallam) lae. Actually I was doing bayan to myself and I feel maybe this word utter wrong . Hazrat I know it's wired question but I get waswasa or something disease when I ever I talk something I check whether it's kufr or not? Please advise me so that I never follow my inside feeling.