Domestic problems

Q: I am having difficulties. I am divorced for the passed six years with 3 kids. I don't have any help from my ex-husband for the kids and I have two brothers. My parents and brothers have hated me a lot. In the passed three years we have become enemies. They don't like my face. They mistreat me and don't let me go to work. All my ways are blocked. I need a wazifa. I want to get a job and they must all agree like before I was working. I am suffering a lot for the passed one year.

False allegations

Q: I saw a video in which aqeedah of deoband was mentioned. The scholar said that in shamaim imdadiya vol 1 pg 37 it is mentioned that it is shirk to distinguish between the worshipper and the worshiped.He said that the deobandis believe that Allah is not different from his creation.What is the correct aqeedah of deoband, please reply?