Suspended talaaq

Q: I had a fight with my wife and in anger, I told her that if you will do this work again you will be divorced on me.

My question is that if she does that work, will the divorce take place? 

Celebrating birthdays

Q: I want to ask regarding celebrating family kids birthday parties. My in laws are not very religious so if someone's kid in their family celebrates a birthday party or celebrates a birthday party at home, what should I do?

I tell them that birthdays are not allowed in Islam and they even say "yes we know, we just doing it to keep the kids happy they can get toys or clothes on this occasion". If I don't go then my husband and in laws get upset and they tell me that I am not part of the family.

Forgoing salaah

Q: Its been 7-8months since I’m not praying regularly like most probably 3-4 times a day. For the last 2-3 weeks I’m not getting any fear of Allah and not praying regularly. I’m also feeling bad about not praying but still I’m not getting that fear and praying. Please can you suggest some tips.