Q: Is it sunnah to shave the moustache or trim the moustache? If both are sunnah, which one is more preferred?

Q: In an automatic washing machine we just have to put the clothes and the detergent and it automatically fills water and washes the clothes as well as it automatically drains the water after washing. Will the impure clothes become paak or pure? Some scholars say that washing impure clothes in an automatic washing machine does not make it paak.

Q: I was offering the four rakat sunnat before zuhr in the mosque. I was offering the second rakat when the iqaamat started, so I completed my salah like a two rakah prayer to join the jamaat. Will I have to offer the sunnat again after zuhr or is it permissible to skip it? And also should I do sajdah sahw when I repeat the sunnah to after the jamaat?

Q: I made a mistake in one of the prayers but forgot to do sajdah sahw and got up. Later I remembered and then repeated the prayer. Should I perform sajdah sahw in the repeated prayer? 

Q: If a man tells his wife during an argument, ‘I swear to Allah, we will be divorced’ does this mean the couple are divorced?

Q: Why are wives so defiant? They refuse to listen to their husbands?

Q: Why is it said in Islam that women are not supposed to cook for their husbands?

Q: If a husband and wife would like to peform jamaat salaah at home, would they stand just like how two people would normally stand?

Q: I have been married for 10 years. I had my 1st talaaq when my duaghter was 2 years old. We reconciled soon thereafter and now I have my 2nd talaaq over the phone when my husband moved out for the second time. Is a talaaq valid over the phone?

His reason for moving out is because I am always skelling. He is never home and I am doing everything; seeing to the kids food and the house. Somtimes he comes home very late at night and I am not allowed to even ask where he was. I don't know where he works or how much he earns. Furthermore I don't know where he is currently staying.

He always wants things his way. He wanted a second wife 4 years ago and it never happened. Ever since then things haven't been smooth. I told him that I'm going to MJC and he told me to because that is for people who doesn't know their deen. Ya Allah I love him tremendously. When I asked him today if my talaq is finalized, he said he will call me tonight. When he moved the 1st time he told me he thought the separation would help. I asked him if we cannot mayb have a separation period then a talaaq he said he tried but he tried nothing. I am prepared to make this work, please help.

Q:

1. Suppose I am offering Asar or Maghrib and I joined the Namaz in the last Rakaat after missing the first three rakats, now when the prayer ends with "Assalaamu alaikum warahmatullah" by Imam and I get up from "Attahiyyaat", Then what do I have to say first? Do I have to start my next rakat with thana or bismillah?

2. Also, do I have to say a surat after reciting surah fatiha?