Talaaq

Q: I wish to inquire regarding the maslah of nafaqah of a divorced woman who is sitting in iddat. Is nafaqah necessary on the husband in the following situations:

1. A woman was given talaaq baain or talaaq raji. She left her husband’s house and went to stay with her mother.

2. A woman was given talaaq bain or talaaq raji. The house which both husband and wife were staying in belongs to the wife. The wife left her home to go and stay by her parents home.

A: In the above two situations, when the wife left the house of her husband or her house and went to her parents house then she will not be entitled to receive nafaqah.

Q: I gave my wife divorce in anger three times yesterday. Are we divorced or we can stay together?

Q: I have been contemplating and reflecting a lot the past few months. We all know there is great Hikmah behind everything, Allah is The Most Wise... We would never be able to even comprehend His wisdom SubhanAllah.

I was pondering on something... When a man gives a woman the 3rd talaq, the woman becomes completely impermissible for him... She needs to marry another man, consummate that before and then she is able to go back to the former husband (this can't be planned out though).

As I said we would never be able to contemplate the wisdom of Allah. But I do ponder why that is... What is the reason for this SubhanAllah?

Is it so the woman can experience another marriage to someone else to see if he appreciates her etc? Is it a kind of punishment for the man for going so extreme to give a 3rd talaq. SubhanAllah I'm just pondering. I wish I knew the tafsir for this verse or if anyone has more knowledge on this please.

Q: I want to know separate or separation or separated those word are sareeh or kinaya?

Q: A man and woman have been separated for 2 years and the 2nd talaaq was given. The woman is sitting in iddat. If her rights over the past 28 years have not been fulfilled and there has been emotional and physical abuse over the years to her and her children, can she refuse to reconcile?

Q: I have a serious matter about a Talaq related question.

I am married and have kids.

I did a second nikah last year with a woman who has 4 kids. She has been manipulating and not been honest with me for last 1 year and continuously lies about so many things and on the top of that she has her EX husband living in the same house with her as she keeps saying he lives in a separate room.

I had enough of her lies so I have separated from her and my first wife asked me to divorce her so I have wrote an emal and told her that I'm divorcing her but it was not my intention and my wife pushed the email sent button.

Then my daughter told me to send her divorce otherwise they will not live with me so I wrote an email and send to the wrong email address because I have no intention to divorce her but my daughter had me corrected the email and send her again.

Couple of days later I called her and I told her I have been forced to give you divorce but this is not my intention and I also told her until I come and give.  I did go back to her and have relationship back with her again.

My wife find out that email divorce is not valid so she has forced me again to call her on the phone and divorce her so I did call her and divorce her 3 times by saying Talaq to her. Later I went back to her because and I told her that until I personally give you divorce I'm not divorcing her.

Now my question is, is my marriage still valid or its divorced. I am very confused. 

Q: If a wife is not ready to divorce her husband then how can a husband take divorce?

Q: I asked my husband to divorce me as I did not like him so he divorced me 3 times at once upon my demand. Is this khula or divorce?

Q: A man insisted his wife to go out of the country to work with him, and his wife did not want to go because of the environment in the western country, she was afraid that he would go there. In order not to deteriorate in this environment, her husband then told her that if she did not comply, he swore that he would not go near her for four months, and four months had passed, Does it lead to divorce?

Q: I grew up in a very harsh condition and wasn't very learned in most aspects of my Deen with Allah's grace I'm slowly getting there. Years ago in a rage of anger I issued my wife 3 talaqs without knowing the repercussions or the laws behind. I had no real Islamic knowledge of it and when my wife slapped me and told me what I did, I honestly didn't know what exactly it meant to say those words. As I was saying I grew up hearing my father telling my mother that and at that time of me saying I had no knowledge of it and we were in such a intense fight and argument. Now, after years my wife came to me and said that it stands as a divorce. Could you please guide me on this matter.