Tahaarat

Q: At times when I take out a garment to wear from the cupboard, I notice some substance of najaasat on it (not just the trace), what is the condition of the other garments washed together in the washing machine. Many a times I don't even know which were the other garments as it was only noticed after a few days. And if I know which were the other garments, then in this case also,what will be the ruling?

Q: In toilet or istinga we should use lumps of earth 3 times or 1 or 5. And we heard that the method of using earth is different for cold season and warm season. In cold season the prostrate glands are compressed so first earth should be pushed from front to back and second from back to front and third from front to back and in hot season as to prostrate glands are loosen so you should use conversely. Is it related to sunnah.

Q: I need to ask a question. I am at a young age. I want to learn so much about my deen and get close to Allah but I don't know what's  happened. I've been watching a lot of porn and every time I watch it I have to take ghusl and in the ghusl Khana I get a lot of wasswas while making fard ghusl that's why I do all these odd ways to make all the hairs wet but when I finish my ghusl I get extreme thoughts like your going to go hell because your ejaculated by watching porn and this ghusl is not correct that you have made and all that fard ghusl is all I think about every single day. Thats all I think about 24/7. I need help.

Q: I have a doubt that the fard ghusl I made that day I forgot to soap inside the anus. Normaly I soap then rinse etc so now I don't know if my
ghusl is done since they say you can't judge on doubt but you can on certainty. If you are certain you missed it then redo it if your are not certain leave it. Is this the right way to do it? If not can you explain jazakullah.

Q: I pray that you can respond to my questions on purity, so that I may feel comfort in knowing what to do in my case. It’s difficult because I don’t have immediate access to people of knowledge. 

I am generally healthy, and don't suffer from incontinence of any sort (Praise Allah), but I frequently get build-up of prostatic fluid through the day that comes out intermittently! Is this normal for men? If I don't clear the passage by milking the penis regularly, then I fear something will eventually come out! For me, how it will come out is by it slowly sliding out of the meatus (only when there is a lot of it usually), not like a droplet sitting at the tip or anything, that only happens rarely.  How I know this, is by feeling the lip of the tip, which sticks out a bit due to movement or when the meatus mouth may become moist due to heat or something making its way out. It’s the side of this lip that I feel which is slightly sticky sometimes. I can look down and think I see nothing, but sometimes this annoying fluid settles beneath the surface and accumulates before fractions of the stuff begin to slide out.  If I just look at the tip, then I see a shiny bit surrounding the opening. Sometimes this shininess is extra shiny, and I don’t know if that is due to this sticky fluid drying on it or if this is due to heat or sweat. If this stuff dries on the tip, generally speaking it is hard to notice.

I also have this terrible habit of inspecting the channel of the penis by putting my finger in it and moving it around to determine if the area is dry, but most of the stuff will definitely come out!  This only makes me certain that I don’t even have to look down there and check; I just assume this stuff has come out, as it seems to be my body’s habit to expel this fluid and it is most likely to be the case.

It's hard for me to check my underwear all the time. This liquid is clear and discreet. It comes out very subtly, so it is hard to detect. If one were to have a flow of this stuff exiting due to say sexual arousement, then because of the amount one would see this great amount on his underwear, if his penis made contact with it.

1. When they say that one has to be certain that something has come out of his penis, then does this mean by certainty we have to clearly see a fluid at
the tip or just emerging in droplet form?

2. Because of this build up, I can't be sure if a fraction of it or even just a tiny droplet has come out when I'm having a shower? I think to myself perhaps something has come out; how can I be sure when in the shower or drying myself off? I worry about it mixing with the water on my body which then gets transferred to my towel. Is my towel pure?

3. Should I do wudu for every prayer to be on the safe side and put some barrier between the penis tip and my underwear between the prayers?

Q: I get a lot of wet farts. How much times does one have to have them to be counted as mazoor because I get them a lot and I can't keep changing boxers?

Q: In Talim ul Haq Masaail pertaining to wudhu it says in number 13 - It is Mustahab (preferable) to make Wudhu for each Salaat even though one may be in the state of Wudhu. It is Mustahab only if at least two Rak'aats Salaat have been performed with the previous Wudhu. Thus if one did not perform any Salaat, it will not be permissible to perform fresh Wudhu before that Wudhu
has been either broken or at least two Rak'aats Salaat have been performed.

1-Is the above correct?

2-Will a person be sinful for doing fresh wudhu, if the wudhu is not broken or two Rakaats hasn't been performed because it says it will not be permissible to perform fresh Wudhu?

Q: I made ghusl. I gargled a couple of times and put water on the nose couple of times then soaped the whole body once including the arm pits and under the private parts also inside the anus will the fard ghusl be done I can't remember if the bend near the anus got wet and the hairs on the anus got wet I was making ghusl under the shower so will the fard ghusl be done?