Shaadi

Apne jinsiyyat ko badalna

Q: I'm converting myself from a female to a male and I have done my all surgeries according to Islam. "Allah ki raza or Allah ki marzi se hi me mukammal hochuka hu isme. Agar shayatin ki shirkat hoti or Allah ki narazgi hoti to me apne aap ko mukammal hi na kar pata. Please mujhe ye janna he ke me ek mard ban chuka hu physically and mentally, kya me ab ek female se nikah kar sakta hu"?

Khandaan me shaadi karne se kiya bachche me genetic problems ho sakte hai?

Q: Mera sawal hai ki science kehti hai ki agar cousin bhai behan shadi kare aur unke bacche ho aur wo bhi cousin marriage kare aur unke bacche ho aur wo bhi cousin marriage kare toh aisa karne se paida hone wale bachho me genetic problems ho sakte hai. Jaise ki wo baccha ya bacchi andhi ho sakti hai langda ho sakta hai lekin Islam me toh Allah ne Quran me batadiya ki tum apni puphare khalre mumare bhai behan se shadi kar sakte ho. 

Bachcha baligh hote hi shadi karne ka hukum

Q: Bachcha baligh hote hi shadi karne ka hukum hai na yani 14 or 15 years age aur aaj ke modern science aur research ke mutabiq agar bacchi 19 saal ya usse kam me pregnant ho jati hai toh us ke kai saare bimariyan aane ka bahut ziyada chances hote hai jaise, 1. High blood pressure, 2. Kidney problem, aur khoon ki kami waghaira waghaira.

Aur iska bachche per ye asar hota hai hi baccha 40th week me hona hota hai aur wo 37th week me hojata hai jisse baccha poora organs ke sath paida nahi hota kyunki main organs akhri chaar haftoun me hi bante hai aur baccha bahut kam weight ka hota hai. Aur ye practically bhi sabit hai toh kya is wajah se nikah me takhir ki ja sakti hai. Aur Huzoor Paak sallahu alihi wasalam ke zamane me baligh hote hi shadi kardete the na toh jab ye problem thi ya nahi? 

Haq-e-mahar ada karne se pehle biwi ke saat humbistari karna

Q: Kiya haq mehar pura ada na karne se biwi shohar ke liye haraam hojati hai? I mean to say k biwi ke sath shohar humastri kar sakta ya nahi?

Meri shadi ke waqat meri biwi ke haq mehar 10 hazar rupee our 7 tola gold the howa. Lekin me ne haq mehar me sirf 10 hazar rupee our 3.5 tola gold diya. Ab kiya mera nikaah theek hai? Kiya me biwi ke sath jima (humastri) kar sakta ho ya pehle muje sara haq mehar pay karna hota. Humari rukhsati ho chuki hai.