Shaadi

Q:

1) Deobandi ke aise konse aqeedah hai jis ki waja se woh kafir kahlaaty? 

2) Kiya sunni aur Deobandi ki shaadi hosakti? Aisi surat me kiya woh kufraana aqaa'id follow nahi karti ho?

3) Mere liye Deobandi ka rishta aaya he. Woh kahty hai hum hanafi fiqh ko follow karte hai. Mujh ko teen aqaa'id jo patah tha, Deobandi ke bare me, kufraana hai. Me ne us larke ko bataya jo shaadi karna chahta he to woh kahta hum ye follow nahi karte, to kiya mai aur mere ghar wale is rishta ke liye haa bol dai?

Q: 

1. Islam me mard aurat ko mehar de kar apni biwi banani hoti hai, aur mard kehte hai ham ne paise dekar kharida hai. To kya aurat ko paise dekar kharidi jaati hai? 

2. Kya aurat shohar ki ghulam hai jo usku shohar ki har baat manni parti hai? 

3. Aurat ko talaq dene ka haq kyu nahi hai?

Q: If a virgin girl is involved with a married man, they love each other and want to get married but the girl dont want to give rights to the 1st wife (hambistari), kiya is condition pe nikaah hoskta hai?

Kiya isse larki ko gunaah hoga? Agar ye baat soch ke larki nikaah se inkaar kar rahi hai ke wo apni pehli wife ke sath hamisbatri karega tu kiya phir bhi gunah hoga?

س: میری منگنی میری چچازاد لڑکی سے ہوچکی ہے کیا میں اس کو غیرمحرم لوگوں کے پاس جانے سے منع کرسکتاہوں؟

Q: Log ye mante hai ke Sayyid ka matlab wo upper caste hai (ya'ni unche khandaan ke) aur log kehte hai ke Islam me bhi caste discrimination hai jaise Hindus me hota hai. Kya ye saheeh hai? Aur log kehte hai ke Huzoor (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) ne Sayyid ka bohot baraa martaba bataya hai. Kiya ye saheeh hai?

Q: Meri sister ka rishta aaya hai. Log har lehaz se achay hai magar wo log Barelvi maslak ke hai. Yahan rishta karna saheeh hoga?

Q: I'm converting myself from a female to a male and I have done my all surgeries according to Islam. "Allah ki raza or Allah ki marzi se hi me mukammal hochuka hu isme. Agar shayatin ki shirkat hoti or Allah ki narazgi hoti to me apne aap ko mukammal hi na kar pata. Please mujhe ye janna he ke me ek mard ban chuka hu physically and mentally, kya me ab ek female se nikah kar sakta hu"?

Q: Larki ki shadi kis age main karni chahiye Islami aur Pakistan ke qanun ke hisab say samjin?

Q: Mera sawal hai ki science kehti hai ki agar cousin bhai behan shadi kare aur unke bacche ho aur wo bhi cousin marriage kare aur unke bacche ho aur wo bhi cousin marriage kare toh aisa karne se paida hone wale bachho me genetic problems ho sakte hai. Jaise ki wo baccha ya bacchi andhi ho sakti hai langda ho sakta hai lekin Islam me toh Allah ne Quran me batadiya ki tum apni puphare khalre mumare bhai behan se shadi kar sakte ho. 

Q: Bachcha baligh hote hi shadi karne ka hukum hai na yani 14 or 15 years age aur aaj ke modern science aur research ke mutabiq agar bacchi 19 saal ya usse kam me pregnant ho jati hai toh us ke kai saare bimariyan aane ka bahut ziyada chances hote hai jaise, 1. High blood pressure, 2. Kidney problem, aur khoon ki kami waghaira waghaira.

Aur iska bachche per ye asar hota hai hi baccha 40th week me hona hota hai aur wo 37th week me hojata hai jisse baccha poora organs ke sath paida nahi hota kyunki main organs akhri chaar haftoun me hi bante hai aur baccha bahut kam weight ka hota hai. Aur ye practically bhi sabit hai toh kya is wajah se nikah me takhir ki ja sakti hai. Aur Huzoor Paak sallahu alihi wasalam ke zamane me baligh hote hi shadi kardete the na toh jab ye problem thi ya nahi?