Shaadi

Baaligh hote hee shaadi kar lena

Q: Islam me baligh hote hi shadi karne ko kaha hai? Lekin ye sab log jaante hai ke male (boy) ki height baligh hone ke baad hi barti hai, lekin agar wo baligh hote hi shadi karde aur phir ek saal me usse bachhe ho jaaye.

Ye toh sab jaante hai ke choote bachhe bahut satate hai, toh agar wo admi baligh hote hi shadi karle aur phir usse bachhe ho jaye toh uski neend sahi nahi hogi, jiski wajah se us ki height par bhi asar parta hai, jaise ke sab jaante hai ke height sote waqt hi barti hai. Jab hormones ziyada se zyada release hote hai aur neend bahut zaroori hoti hai height growth ke liye. Toh jab admi baligh hote hi shadi karle toh us ki toh height hi ruk gayi. Hame is mas'ale par baar baar ishkaal hota hai.

Deobandi larke ka rishta

Q:

1) Deobandi ke aise konse aqeedah hai jis ki waja se woh kafir kahlaaty? 

2) Kiya sunni aur Deobandi ki shaadi hosakti? Aisi surat me kiya woh kufraana aqaa'id follow nahi karti ho?

3) Mere liye Deobandi ka rishta aaya he. Woh kahty hai hum hanafi fiqh ko follow karte hai. Mujh ko teen aqaa'id jo patah tha, Deobandi ke bare me, kufraana hai. Me ne us larke ko bataya jo shaadi karna chahta he to woh kahta hum ye follow nahi karte, to kiya mai aur mere ghar wale is rishta ke liye haa bol dai?

Nikaah ka matlab

Q: 

1. Islam me mard aurat ko mehar de kar apni biwi banani hoti hai, aur mard kehte hai ham ne paise dekar kharida hai. To kya aurat ko paise dekar kharidi jaati hai? 

2. Kya aurat shohar ki ghulam hai jo usku shohar ki har baat manni parti hai? 

3. Aurat ko talaq dene ka haq kyu nahi hai?

Doosri biwi ka yeh shart lagana ke pehli biwi se hambistari nahi karega

Q: If a virgin girl is involved with a married man, they love each other and want to get married but the girl dont want to give rights to the 1st wife (hambistari), kiya is condition pe nikaah hoskta hai?

Kiya isse larki ko gunaah hoga? Agar ye baat soch ke larki nikaah se inkaar kar rahi hai ke wo apni pehli wife ke sath hamisbatri karega tu kiya phir bhi gunah hoga?

Islam me caste system

Q: Log ye mante hai ke Sayyid ka matlab wo upper caste hai (ya'ni unche khandaan ke) aur log kehte hai ke Islam me bhi caste discrimination hai jaise Hindus me hota hai. Kya ye saheeh hai? Aur log kehte hai ke Huzoor (sallallahu alaihi wasallam) ne Sayyid ka bohot baraa martaba bataya hai. Kiya ye saheeh hai?