Shaadi

Q: Muje kisi ne bataya hai ke nikah ki pehli raat me bivi ko sex karna lazim hota hai warna nikah katam hojata hai? Kia ye bat right hai according to shariat? Nikah kebad sex karna bivi kesath first night zaroori hota hai ya insan jab chahe karsakta hai means after few dayz or month? Meri friend ko menses hogae the shadi ki peli rat to usne sex nai karne dia husband ko kuch dayz tak when jab kafi din guzar gae to uske husband ne kaha dekho agar sex nai karenge to nikkah tootjaega kia ye bat sai hai?

Q: Meray nana ki pahli shadi say two larkiyan ak mare ammi or ak khala larka na hona ki waja say mary nana na dosry shadi ki os say ak larka or ak larki ho . dosry shadi say jo larki ho wo mary lay merham ha ya gair mehram?

Q: Condom use karna kin halat me jaiz he?

Q: Mai ye puchna chahti hu ke islam mai toh pasand ki shadi ko jaiz qarar dya gaya hai lekin agar koi larki kisi larkey ko pasand karti ho or Allah se mangti ho us larkey ko toh gunnah toh nahi hai mangna? Qu ke wo Allah se mehram ke roop mai mangri hai mujhe tafseel se bataein or asan urdu mai bataein.

Q:

1. Kia bivi ke back se karny sy nikaah toth jata hy?

2. Kia bivi ko agr galti sy ami bol dy to kia nikah toth jata hy is tarah se?

3. Kia husband apni wife ka doodh pee sakta hy?

Q: Baat ye hai ke main shaik family se hoon tho kya main sayed family ke ladki se shadi karsakta hoon. Uske liye koi wasul hote please mujhe batayein. Kyun main aashiqe rasool hoon alhumdulillah.

Q: Kia ayk orat (do mardo) se shaadi kar sakti he ayk saath? Jaisa ke mard do shaadi karta he or os ki dono biwiya ayk sath reh sakti he. Iss tarah ki orat bhi kr sakti hy?

Q: Agar larka or larki nikaah ki niyyat se teen janne wale aqilo baligh logo ke samne unhe nikah ki niyat batae bagair bato bato men nikah karen or kahen ke (larka puche k 'tumhe is mehar ke sath nikah qubool he?' Or larki 'han' kahe aese hi 3 se 4 bar kahen or un aqilo baligh logo ko mutawajja krte batae ke larki ko nikah qubool he or unhe mutawajja krte hue larka ijab kare or larki qubool kare to kya wo nikah hojaega? Or wo teen log nikah ki niyat na jante hue bator gawah shamil hojaenge? Please jawab zurur dijiega.

Q: Mera ek or sawal ye hy k me Afghani hn or me ek Pakistani larke se boht pyar karti hn taqreeban 4 ya 5 salo se or us k Ghar wale raazi hy lakin mere Ghar wale Ab razi nhi hy srf es waja se k WO Pakistani hy na k Afghani jb k WO n us k walid mere walid se mil chuke hy or unko zuban b di thi bt lakin mere walid hm se kuch or kehte hy means k nhi maan rahe or munkir hy apni zuban se BT massla ye hy k unko kuch nhi bolte means larke k walid call b karte hy to receive nhi karte na hi unko inkaar karte hy BT hmare Ghar me boht massla create karte hy mujse baat nhi karte bad dua dete hu meri ammi ko Dante hy etc or hm 6 behane or 2 bhai hy mera num 4 hy or ek Behan ki shadi hogai hy meri ammi n Mamu log raazi hy larke ko dekho chuke hu BT meri behane phele kehti thi k AGR larka hmare rewaaj pore karega n izzat se shadi karega to hume koi prob nhi hy or larka SB kuch maan raha hy har chez k liye raazi hu uski family b kuch nhi bol rahi BT Ab mere walid or 4 bahne apni bato se palat gaye hu or kuch dino se Ghar ka mahol kharab kar rakha hu muje baat baat pe sunate hy taane dete hu or muje baat tk band kardi hy or meri ammi se bola hu k apni beti se kaho k ek ko intikhaab kare matlb k ya larke ko chose kar k chali jaye n kbi b dobara wapis yahan na aye yaani hmsha hmesha k liye rishta khatam karde warna larke ko bhool jaue mera massla ye hy k me dono me se koi rasta nhi le sakti or meri halat boht buri hy dil me kharab batain ati hy koi rasta nazar nhi ata dil chahta hu k khudkhushi karlon BT ammi mere sath hy WO b boht pareshaan hy mere liye meri family kehti hu ammi se k us larke ko bula kar chup kar eska nikkah kar k bhejdo or kbi wapis na aaye BT meri ammi kehti hy k es me ruswayi hy coz meri srf ek Behan ki shadi huwi hu n do behane mujse bari bethi huwi hy engage b nhi hy TBI ye to boht sharam ki baad hy k do bari behne Ghar pe hy or 4 ki shadi kardon wo b chip kar or mere liye b darti hy k aage ki zindagi me muje taane milenge or shadi k baad mera koi maika nhi hoga Me jis se pyar karti hn usne aj tk boht help ki abbu ki n thori boht family ki or aj tk srf izat se SB karna chahta hu tbi meri ammi ne mujse wada kia hy k WO har haal me hmari shadi karwayengi BT baqi SB hmare khilaaf hy or kuch b samj nhi araha k kia kare me wazifa b karti hn or boht dua b k hmari shadi izzat k sath hojaye BT SB kuch bigar gaya hy boht ajeeb si halat hy meri ammi n Ghar ki TBI ap se guzarish hy k kuch rehnumayi kare or koi tareeqa ya wazifa waghera bataye muje ta k mera massla khair k sath hal hojaye.

Q: Kia hum nikaah 6 ya 3 ya 8 ya thore arsay ke liye kar sakhte han aur us ma mard aur urat mil skhta hai jaiz tarika say ya nahi?