Q: Is golecha mehendi haram? Will wudhu be done with it?

Q: I'm a twenty two year old female, and I have met someone I am ready to get married to. Alhamdulillah he is an Aalim and a qari. My parents, on the other hand don't want to give it a chance. They refuse to even meet him. I don't know what to do because I just have positive thoughts about this. I acknowledge that meeting him out of nikkah was wrong but I just want to make it right. Please advice. 

Q: A Muslim guy approached me and proposed marriage. I explained it to my parents and they asked me to invite him to the house, he told his father but his dad rejected me saying he wants his son to marry a daughter of his friend or else he will disown him. Will I break relation or I pray to Allah to have the guy back or what should I do? I am really confused.

Q: Some people say that we shouldn't send verse of Quran or Hadith in messages because it can be deleted and it's one of the sign of Day of Qayamah that Muslim will remove the verses of Quran.

Q: We have three children and expecting fourth one. My cousin do not have any child, sometime back they asked my wife if you have another child, promise me to give that child, which my wife promised her. Now in light of Quran and Sunnah, can we give our child to my cousin?

Q: My question is that I want to do 2nd Marriage so is it necessary for me to take the permission from my first wife and in case if my first wife don't allow me and I am still willing to do the 2nd Marriage to spend a happy life. So please advise me.

Q: I usually get dropped off to college around 9AM and by the time I get picked up from college, the time for zuhr and asr prayer are already passed. Is it sinful for me to not be praying those salah? Is it okay for me to make up for the missed salah by praying the optional rakats of Maghrib and Isha?

Q: If you can please enlighten me about a business like custom clearing and forwarding in Pakistan. You are the middle man between government and importer. you are forced to give bribe to custom officials in order to make them work otherwise they will linger you. They call it fees while government pays them already. From a sweeper till collector everybody works in this manner. Please guide me in detail or guide me where I can get detail to save my imaan.

Q: I got married a few years back and there was a couple of us who got married the same time, same day.

Everyone kept telling us how we look like such a good couple and were happy. Later I could notice how people use to be jelous of us. My husband is still good for the next 3 to 4 months. Now all of a sudden his really bad and we have had blackmagic dome on a number of us. How do I know if today our relationship is at stake because of black magic? Is there any dua that could change my husband his very tempered, use to like another girl , and is always brainwashed against his wife and son.

Q: From the following ibarat it is understood it is totally impermissible to leave the tap open during wudhu. E.g while doing masah of the head. Is this correct?

وفي الدر ويكره الإسراف فيه تحريما لو بماء النهر أو المملوك له أما الموقوف على من يتطهر به ومنه ماء المدارس فحرام اهـ. حاشية الطحطاوي على مراقي الفلاح شرح نور الإيضاح . ( قوله : فحرام ) لأن الزيادة غير مأذون بها لأنه إنما يوقف ويساق لمن يتوضأ الوضوء الشرعي ولم يقصد إباحتها لغير ذلك حلية ، وينبغي تقييده بما ليس بجار كالذي في صهريج أو حوض أو نحو إبريق ، أما الجاري كماء مدارس دمشق وجوامعها فهو من المباح كماء النهر كما أفاده الرحمتي . رد المحتار وَالْكَرَاهَةُ فِيمَا إِذَا كَانَ الْمَاءُ مَمْلُوكًا أَوْ مُبَاحًا، أَمَّا الْمَاءُ الْمَوْقُوفُ عَلَى مَنْ يَتَطَهَّرُ بِهِ - وَمِنْهُ مَاءُ الْمَدَارِسِ - فَإِنَّ الزِّيَادَةَ فِيهِ عَلَى الثَّلاَثِ حَرَامٌ عِنْدَ الْجَمِيعِ، لِكَوْنِهَا غَيْرَ مَأْذُونٍ بِهَا، لأَِنَّهُ إِنَّمَا يُوقَفُ وَيُسَاقُ لِمَنْ يَتَوَضَّأُ الْوُضُوءَ الشَّرْعِيَّ، وَلَمْ يَقْصِدْ إِبَاحَتَهَا لِغَيْرِ ذَلِكَ. (1) (1) نهاية المحتاج 1 / 173، وابن عابدين 1 / 90، والدسوقي 1 / 101 وما بعدها، والمغني 1 / 139 وما بعدها. الموسوعة الفقهية الكويتية

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