Talaaq

Husband telling his wife "we are over"

Q: I have just given birth 3 weeks ago and been staying with my parents. My husband and I got into an argument and in a state of extreme anger he said we were over. This was done over text message as well as verbally over the phone. He also sent a text message to my mum telling her also that me and him were over. The actual word of divorce was never spoken. Everyone is telling us we are now divorced. Is this correct?

Husband sending the wife government divorce notice form

Q: My husband sent ‘divorce notice form’ according to Bangladeshi Govt divorce form but his intention was to frighten and correct me . In that form he had to give right mark to ‘talaq e bain’ as there is no option there. Within one month a family meeting is occurred and we lived again as husband-wife. As Bangladeshi divorce rule, if husband take wife before 90 days, they can live as spouse.Now the question is according to Sharii, is it valid to live? If it is not valid, what should we do?