Talaaq

Suspending a talaaq

Q: I said to my wife. "Agar bazar se ik ganty ke andar wapus na ai to sub kuch khatam hojai ga" with the intention in my head to scare her that the rishta will end so come fast and not at all with the niyat of talaq. Now after 3 months I did researched and found out that this is called kinaya and it may be a divorce?

Punjabi words that construe talaaq

Q: I speak Pothwari Punjabi. I used to say alot of phrases like...

Mein iski chordisa

Jabi woh idr ay toh mein uski chordisa

Or jab idr ay gi toh talaaq ho jasi

Jila vee idr ay teh usni talaaq ho jasi

Uski mein talaaq desa

Mein us k saath na rehnigya

Is this same as a promise or is this condtional? Its the same as urdu meaning I think.

Telling wife that we are separated for 40 days

Q: I got married last year and it was a love marriage. I moved abroad and my wife is still back in my homeland. We fight alot. Before and even after marriage, we beat each other, obviously I am the husband so I beat her harder.

Now, every time we fight, it ends with her asking for talaq, or I tell her to leave me, or I tell her everything ends etc. But recently in messages, we fought again, and as usual she asked me for talaq and this time I said to her that we are separated for 40 days. Then I blocked her from every social media that we keep contact on. I haven't called her or said any words of talaq.