Talaaq

Q: I give talaq three times in written form six years ago to my wife and before rukhsati. Now if I want to remarry that same girl what should I do?

Q: If I say to my wife just to threaten her that I have signed the divorce document and you will get them but i was lying. I haven't signed any documents. I was just trying to hurt her and threaten her. Will divorce fall? I have a clear intention that by saying this I didn't mean any divorce.

Q: I have just given birth 3 weeks ago and been staying with my parents. My husband and I got into an argument and in a state of extreme anger he said we were over. This was done over text message as well as verbally over the phone. He also sent a text message to my mum telling her also that me and him were over. The actual word of divorce was never spoken. Everyone is telling us we are now divorced. Is this correct?

Q: I will be looking to get a second wife from Pakistan. The thing is that I want to dissolve my legal marriage in Canada. My wife is aware of me getting my second marriage. If I file for a civil divorce will it affect my Shari nikaah in any way?

Q: If a husband said to his wife "you will write divorced in your marital status" but the wife did not write it, will divorce take place?

Q: A man issued 1 talaq. He was told that it is baain but still became imtimate with his wife. On reviewing the facts he learnt that the talaq was raji and not baain. Is the wife back into nikah?

Q: Why is it necessary to have witnesses and a Moulana present for a nikaah to take place but for divorce to occur nobody else besides husband and wife need to be present?

Q: My wife said I have no relation with you from now on I'm finishing this married relationship...what is the hukam now?

Q: My husband sent ‘divorce notice form’ according to Bangladeshi Govt divorce form but his intention was to frighten and correct me . In that form he had to give right mark to ‘talaq e bain’ as there is no option there. Within one month a family meeting is occurred and we lived again as husband-wife. As Bangladeshi divorce rule, if husband take wife before 90 days, they can live as spouse.Now the question is according to Sharii, is it valid to live? If it is not valid, what should we do?

Q: My husband and I have been married for 2 years now. We have no children yet. On multiple occasions I caught him cheating on me with some other girl. I know that he is in love with her. I gave him 3 chances already because I didnt want to give up on our marriage. This year I have seen a lot of improvements in him. He has been trying hard to work on our marriage. We went for Umrah as well this past February. I finally felt like things were getting better between us until two days ago. I found him exchanging messages with that same girl and telling her how he feels. They recently started talking again after a year of no contact. I confronted him and now he is begging for another chance and trying to take care of me. He keeps crying to me about how badly he wants me in his life and how much he needs me and how he made a mistake. I havent told anyone about him cheating on me in the past two years but i think i should share it with his mother now. I cant deal with the emotional pain all by myself anymore. I’m going into severe depression.

My question is should i give him another chance? This would be the fourth chance im giving him in two years. Or should I ask for a divorce? I protected this marriage for as long as I could. I dont know if it would be foolish for me to give him another chance. Im breaking down everyday! I dont know what would hurt me more, to stay with him or to leave him. I really didnt want my marriage to end. I dont know if i can live without him. But sometimes i think that if I am still hurting after two years together then i feel like its now my fault for that continuous pain because im the one that keeps giving him chances to hurt me. Please me give your sincere advice.