Talaaq

Q: If I say "we are done" or "its over" does that count as talaaq? I got upset and said it.

Also, I stayed away from her and didn't see her unless she started to wear hijab, is that permissible?

Q: I need the ruling with regards to 3 talaaqs, can it be issued at once or does it get issued over the period of iddah?

Q: 3 weeks ago my husband and I had a big fight. He canceled our apartment and he left. I was mad that I told him to divorce me and he refused. I told him that I had met someone and I want divorce. He got really mad and he said you divorce 2 time. I was lying when I said I met someone. Now he regret saying the divorce and he wants to fix our marriage. My question is the 2 talaq record? And how we can fix our marriage. 

Q: My husband is not taking care of me and my child financially. I was a working person before marriage and now I'm still working. He thinks that I am earning enough and don't need his money. Can I ask for a divorce because of this?

Q: My husband gave me divorce 1 time and my iddat has also got finished. Is there any way I can go back to my husband if he contacts me.

Q: My husband (hanafi) was previously married to a shafi girl from a certain town. Things never worked out due to family influence on her side and she went back to her home town. She approached the ulama in her town for help and the ulama sent my husband a letter stating that he has to attend a meeting at a given date and time. My husband never attended the meeting nor answered the calls from her or from the Ulama. Thereafter he received another letter stating that his then wife is requesting for a faskh with a request for another meeting. My husband never attended that meeting as well. He received another letter stating that the faskh went through and that he must go to sign the necessary documents, but never done so.

4 Months after the fasigh went through he proposed to me and we got married 3 months there after, alhamdulillah. Now a few weeks ago, the matter came about, suggesting that he is still married to his first wife.

Regarding the given situation above I need advice on the following:

- Is he still married to her?

- If he is, what steps should he take?

- What are my rights? (At the time of the proposal I never knew he got "divorced" and when he proposed I said that I cannot be a second wife.) 

Q: If a husband tells his wife that if you dont fix your attitude then you go. Would that be divorce?

Q: What does Allah say in the case of separation of husband and wife. The father wants to keep two children and gives the other two children to the mother even though the mother is willing to keep all the children but the father is forcefully keeping them..

Q: Wife asked her husband a question. The question is: Who writes divorced in marital status on visa forms? Husband said: Maye someone was divorced and wants to visit abroad then he will write divorced as his marital status. The husband had no bad intention. He just said that to explain to his wife. The wife is worried that divorce took place.

Q: Recently I had a fight with my wife. And in the fight, my wife said angrily that she wants this relationship to end. I unintentionally nodded my head without realising what she had said. I then immediately realised that I have given her assent for something wrong. I am confused whether first talaq has happened or not.