Talaaq

Husband taking the wife back after one talaaq

Q: My husband gave me 1 talak (no talak given earlier). I am staying at my parents home since 5 months.

1. Can I perform iddat period in my parents home after being given 1 talaq given by husband?

2. During iddat period, if the husband comes for rujju and I dont want to go back again, can I reject the rujju offer from my husband?

3. Can I do 2nd marriage after the iddat period?

4. Is the iddat period compulsory after 1 talak?

Husband having an affair with his wife's niece

Q: My husband, 36, has been having an affair with my niece, 20, for the past few years. Everytime I confronted him he denied it and twists it around like I'm crazy and insecure. However yesterday I caught them redhanded in each others arms kissing, etc. What is the position of my nikah with him? We have 2 sons aged 16 & 14 and a daughter 11. My concern is custody of my children, should I choose to divorce. Please advice me of the way forward.

Man saying "the next three women I marry are thrice divorced"

Q: A man said 'the next three women I marry are thrice divorced'.

1. If the man marries a woman, the divorce will automatically takes place, but if he marries the same woman again, does divorce take place?  

2. Is there any way around this if divorce takes place, like getting somebody else to marry on your behalf?

3. If a man says to a woman who is not his wife 'I give you one divorce'. If they get married does talaq take place?

Husband telling the wife to remain at her mother's house

Q: I said to my husband that I want to go to my mothers house because I did not go to her house for 1 month. He said ok go but come back after two days. I said no I'll come after a week. He said that if you don't come in two days then always stay at your moms house. I asked him about his intention and he said that he did not intend divorce. I want to ask if divorce will take place if I stay at my moms house for more than two days?

Wife asking for a divorce

Q: If a husband and wife are fighting and the wife asks for a divorce but the husband has no intention to give divorce and remains silent, then the wife again says that I can't live with you and husband unintentionally says okay but no intention of divorce at all. Now the wife said to him that since you said okay to my statement, our marriage is over. Please explain if it is a divorce even if the husband did not utter anything except okay. If it is a divorce then how many take place? 

Issuing talaaq on the phone

Q:

1. If a man does not remember that he divorced his wife or not, does talaq takes place?

2. If a man utter the word talaq e.g. usne bola talaq talaq talaq and the wife is on the phone and she heard it? Does talaq takes place in both situations even when the man does not want give her talaq?

Handing over the right of talaaq to the wife

Q: My wife and I have been going through some problems and we have been arguing for a over a year and I was fed up so I gave her the right of divorce (tafweedh), the other day we were arguing and she had just come of the phone with her ex husband, the father of her daughter whom she had also had an argument with. I said to her that she was upset after arguing with him and she was taking it out on me. She said "We always become one afterwards" in urdu and I repeated to her that thats fine you become one with him, you become one and then she said yes we will, sarcastically. I was upset and I repeated it that you become one and then she uttered the words I divorce you, I divorce you, I divorce you in urdu 3 times... Now I dont know where we stand and neither does she. Really, deep down she doesnt want the divorce and to be honest neither did I. Please help us and give us guidance on this matter.