Incontinence problem

Q: I'm a male and I have a medical problem of urethral discharge incontinence. I can't afford to buy diapers everytime and also there is not too much of leakage, only small amounts. I keep a tissue paper in my underwear to prevent it from soiling. But it always keeps moving from it's place. I tried wrapping around my penis but still it unwraps and moves away. So, everytime when I'm going to toilet, I change my underwear also. Nowadays, I am changing 6-7 underwear per day, which is very very difficult. Please tell me any other suggestion, so that I don't have to change my underwear everytime when I go to the toilet.

Concealing one's past sins

Q: I was in a friendship with Mr. X and was committed with him for many years and now I am engaged to him Masha Allah. Our relationship is very pious and respectaable. We never touched each other. A year before my engagement with my friend Mr. X, my affair started with Mr. Z and I had a physical relationship but there was no penetration. I was cheating on my friend Mr. X. Finally I realized my mistake and now I have left Mr. Z.... My fiance, Mr. X got this information from different people about my past affair and asked me but I refused to accept it. I repent for my sin daily but I don't want to hurt my fiance nor do I want to cheat on him. One thing is for sure that he will not leave me even after I accept my sin in front of him but I don't want to hurt him for his whole life.

What should I do now? Should I tell him truth before marrying him? I don't have courage to face him

Secondly, will Allah forgive me ? Is there any kaffara of my sin? My marriage is planned after 3 months. 

Bequest of a non-Muslim

Q: I would like to know the ruling on wills from non-Muslim parents. I understand that one cannot recieve any money or possessions stipulated in the wills of non-Muslim parents unless it is less than 1/3, but if the will stipulated that the living parent gives the money or possessions throughout the life until it is paid is that permissible?