Nikaah & Marriage Issues

Q: A girl's father made her nikkah to a guy. She wasn't in the nikkah. She made her father her representative. After nikkah she wasn't living with the guy. She was still living at her father's house. Few months later she came to know that the guy is not good so she decided to break the nikkah. But her father said there was no nikkah done. After that she got married to another guy and now she is living with him. But one of her relatives is saying that her nikkah was held at that time and now she has done nikkah over nikkah. Now theres confusion about her nikkah whether it was done or not. She is now married to another guy. Is she doing zina? Is that nikkah valid? She can't even get divorced from that guy she left because these people have become their enemies.

Q: A relatives husband took another wife without her knowing. She told him to choose and if he wants her then he must leave the other wife. Please guide.

Q: I am always nervous and unhappy. Never getting success in job. I work abroad in Saudi Bin Ladin co. l send money to my wife every month but she is also not happy. There is no barkat in my house and in my salary. I have 6 children, 5 daughters and one son.

My son does not listen to his mother nor respects her. Now he started smoking hukka. l am very worried about all this. Why is this happening?

Q: If you don't know about the ruling of Hurmat-e-musaharat, and you find out about this rule about a one month ago, what happens? Will hurmat-e-musaharah still take place or Allah will forgive him? 

Q: I am 30 years old and unemployed. I decided to stay unmarried my whole life. Is it allowed in Islam? Are there any losses to be unmarried and what are the benefits to be married?

Q: I would like to know if I can speak to my wife by implanting thoughts in her mind to love me without her realizing this consciously to improve my marriage. These techniques are taught in NLP Neuro-linguistic programming which teaches people how to use language to influence others by saying a sentence in a way where you are telling the mind what to do. For example, instead of saying you should love me, I said to her you can feel yourself loving me more and more now. Is this permissible for me to do?

Q: I married a girl and she was already married to a guy. For the last 4 years he was in a jail due to some reasons... The family members doesnt have any information about their son. And his wife also dont have any information about her husband whether he is coming out or not. There was no information at all regarding her husband so we had done nikaah. Is it right or wrong? Is she still married to her first husband? Her husband was calling from jail and he was not saying whether he was coming out or not. Now after 4 years he came back to India. What must do?

Q: Is it permissible to get a nikaah and get to know the person? A term called halaal dating?

Q: What is the minimum mahar in pounds?

Q: My elder sister is a divorcee and is 38 years old now. Last 10-12 years she was in love with a Hindu boy who is ready to convert to Islam for marriage. My Mom did not apporve of this relationship and passed away 5 months back. My sister is not ready to marry anybody else and says she will only marry that boy. My question is, if the boy is ready to convert to islam can this marriage be done and what should be done for him to become a muslim?